Question:
hello anyone know if they can do DNA tests to find out for sure who gave you the HSV just wondering a judge ordered that i get a DNA test on the girl im taking to court i know for a fact she is the one buh i guess how am i supose to get this done?????????????????????????????????????????

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I don't get it.... this is a medical question to ask a doctor... and in order to hold her accountable... she had to know she had it and willfully gave it to you... this seems like a sad lawsuit... no result of this will change that you have it... move on... it isn't the end of the world... it doesn't define who you are...

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well you don't know my story so go sad law suit your a** somewhere else the b*** knew she gave it to me she knew for two years before me that she had it and didn't tell me then when i found out i had it i talked to her and she was like oh im sooo sorry f*** that shit she prolly done this to how many others and its not right so kiss my a** miss know it all LATERZ

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wow... you are really trapped in your own mental hell.... I hope cursing and name calling at me made you feel better...

I guess my point is... a lawsuit won't change it... I got it from someone who knew he had it... he had it for years... his ex girlfriend (before me) that I met has it from him... and she said others got it from him... I am sure he will continue to pass it.... he just doesn't understand how it works and it wrapped up in the stigma behind having it... on some level I have to take responsibilty for having it.... I had sex with him.. I didn't make him get STD tests prior to having sex...

you are right.... I don't know your story.... all I know is what you have written on this site... I don't claim to know it all... I just feel sad when people can't just try and find a place of acceptance... anger eats people up...

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please don't get mad at her...i know how it feels to be angry about it...when i first found out i wanted to drag the guys i've been active with by the crotch to the hospital...i was furious...now i realize, being mad isn't going to change things...i don't know if it was my current boyfriend or what...how do you know she knew from the beginning? i had 3 ob in the past 3 years, i had no clue it was herpes at first...i honestly thought it was just shingles...after all, that is what the dr. told me. i know your angry and i understand that anger all to well...i'm still mad about it, but nothing is going to fix it and that is all there is to it. even with a lawsuit, it isn't going to change anything. she'll probably just get a little slap on the wrist and then it be done to be honest....that is what happened to my ex-hubby when he was beating the crap out of me, and i have this feeling he is the one that gave it to me. but why bother, it will just be a waste of time and money to try and nail whoever did it, just for them to get a slap on the wrist.

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well lets see here how do i know it was her ok i know it was her because first off i never had nothing wrong with my shit second i didn't have sex or anything for like 3 years before her then i had sex with her and the next day i started getting sick then 2 days later i had 4 to 5 bumps on the base of my shit then i end up confronting her and she told me that she was soooo sorry she got it about 2 years ago its just a hard thing to talk about hmmmm SO DO THE MATH where you think i got it??

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i guess if we go by your standards then my recent boyfriend gave it to me? after all, i've been with him 5 years and never saw a sign of it til 3 years ago? honey, it can lay dormant for years from what my dr. told me. and as far as i know my bf has been faithful to me for these 5 years, and visa versa. and i really don't think it is going to form over night. even getting the flu from someone takes longer than overnight...the admission is the only thing i understand on your calculations...she was in the wrong by not telling you...as soon as i found out i started contacting exes so they could get checked...but still, a lawsuit is just going to waste your time and money.

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OK YOU NERDS NEED TO GET A LIFE OK CAN'T GET IT OVER NIGHT LOL WELL DOCTOR CHELLY YOU SHOULD PROLLY GO TALK TO SOMEONE ABOUT THAT YOU THINK EVERYTHING IM DOING IS NOT RIGHT PROLLY CUZ YOU OUT SPREADING SO YEA PEOPLE LIKE YOU WOULDN'T LIKE SEEING OTHERS GETTING SUED WELL STUFF THAT MAYBE YA SUE AND THEY WON'T DO IT TO THE NEXT PERSON IM NOT MR SLEEP AROUND THE WHOLE WORLD HERE LIKE PROLLY YOU IF I WERE TO HAVE TO CALL A FEW EX's ID ONLY HAVE TO CALL 3 AND THEY WERE SO FAR APART I WOULD HAVE KNOWN IF I HAD IT FROM THEM AND I TALK TO CDC ABOUT IT AND THEY AGREE WITH WHAT I SAID SO ANYWAYS DON'T COME UP HERE ACTING LIKE YOU A DOCTOR CUZ THIS IS PISSING ME OFF GO HEAD TALK CRAP SEE IF I GIVE A DAMN IM NOT EVEN LOOKING AT THIS NO MORE CUZ YOUR KIND MAKES ME SICK PINCHE MAYATE

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let me guess...you're only 16...if you were my age and been through the hell we call marriage and divorce i'm sure you would be singing a different tune...i haven't been with that many ppl my damn self...but i did call the few ppl i had been since my divorce...and if you can't handle ppl reacting to what you post then don't post it...how did you expect us all to react?...you start throwing a little temper tantrum like a little kid...i'm sorry, but no you won't notice the next morning...get real...you may contract it but not notice that quickly...your reaction to all this definitally shows your age kiddo...and you also need to learn not to judge ppl you don't know...you know nothing about me...for one thing...i just found out my damn self, so don't start this shit about me being out spreading...maybe you just have a guilty conceince that you have to accuse ppl you don't even know of that...all i was saying is that if they do anything to her, it will be just a slap on the wrist and she'll probably just go back to her old ways...that is what my ex husband did....took his little slap and went back to his old behavior...it didn't phase him a bit...so why pay a lawyer and spend all your time wrapped up in it when you can be seeking the help that you obviously need to cope with the situation and move on already...find a girl that isn't a liar and manipulator, that can overlook your condition...i know that is what i'm trying to do....trying to get out of the relationship i'm in since he can't handle the idea of being with someone that has this problem, and find me someone who can deal with it...i already told my 2 ex-boyfriends and my ex husband (whom i'm sure gave it to me while we were married) and now i'm moving on and will make sure if i end up with anyone that they know...i'm not some immature little kid like you and your ex....i know what is write and am doing the right thing about it