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Question:
Well I met someone that I really like, we've been seeinh each other for a week, but already it seems like a year because we are so comfortable with each other. My problem is that I haven't told him about my hsv2 yet, nor do I want to.
I am 21, just divorced, and have never had to deal with telling someone because my x husband and I both had it.
Now I'm afraid to tell him, afraid of the outcome. We've come too close for me not to tell him.
How do I tell him? I think writing it is best, because I just can't tell him to his face. I'm wondering what I should tell him? I don't want to scare him, so I will hit him with the facts and all that, which I think is a start.
I don't want to lose him but the way I see it is, oh well if I do, life goes on. That's the way I am about everything, life goes on.
But this will be the first time I've had to tell and have read all the stories from others of what's happened after they've told, so I'm pretty much just going to hope for the best and expect the worst.
Wish me luck...:)

Answer:
Thanks for the replies and the support... :roll:

Well I told him and he seemed like he actually cares, he asked questions, wanted to know more. So I told him and told him too that knowledge is power and that if he wanted to learn more he can come use my computer. He said no matter what he decides, and so far he's decided that he wants to make an educated decision, unlike a lot of the ignorant people out there, then we will still be friends, no matter what.
It was really hard for me to tell him but I just had to.
I'm willing to accept whatever decision he makes, and I told him not to continue to talk to me if hes just going to feel pity for me, cuz I've got plenty of that for myself and I don't need his.
Well, I feel better I told and got it off my chest, though I'm sure nothing will come further of our relationship, and that's the chance I had to take, but I went into it knowing what probably was going to happen.
Now I just don't think I'll ever begin any sort of relationship with anyone unless I know they have H too.

Answer:
Ok well I guess I'm talking to myself, but that's ok...
Well I told the guy and he seems cool with it though I'm sure the relationship is over but I don't care...
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