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Hello..I've had herpes since 91..got it from an ex boyfriend..not a long term relationship..but seen him off and on my sophomore year. He was a star of our opposing schools football team..so I thought it was sooo cool to date a senior.

We start having sex right away and 4 mths later he gave me herpes..or shall I say that is when i had an outbreak.

I hated men after that...BAD. I broke up w/him (never told him why) I just never brought it up and I passed it to alot of male whores that were out there. I just didn't care back than. I felt so disgusting.

After that first TERRIBLE outbreak..I didn't have many after that..maybe just 4 times a year.

I got married in 93 and was w/him for 3 years..never told him either. He seen the 'lil cuts' on his thing and just assumed it was from dry skin and rough sex...so I just let him think that. we later divorced due to other things going on.

I had a son in 96..never told my sons dad either.

In fact I never told anyone ANYONE...until I met my NOW hubby. I met him in 02 and married in 03.

I was finally honest. He didn't talk to me for a day..but came back...and when I had my 1st ob with him...he even had sex with me..even when I told him. I am lucky to have him.

We talk about it openly and complain to each other when we have an ob...
he didn't get his first ob until we were together for 2 1/2 years..


ok..theres my story!;)

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And so how do you feel now for having passed it on to so many people?

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Huh. My first thought is that this person can't be for real. :roll:

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Well for one...I am FOR real.

I am not going to lie to appease anyone, anymore at my age. When you are immature you do really dumb things.

So hopefully that answers how I FEEL about passing it to so many people.


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Wow, frightening! Thanks for sharing, I hope people read that and learn, many people pass this shit on purpose. I never wanted to give it to anyone, I avoid sex because of it. It’s wrong to purposefully inflict pain and suffering on people, for that same reason I’m not a thief or a vandal. Crazy story, it’s almost hard to believe but I know it’s true.

Gym

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mrstayor, being "dumb" is one thing but did you ever stop to think about the many, many unsuspected women that these men from your past will pass this on to. So unfair! And incredibly selfish of you I must say!

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I want to defend you mrstaylor, but I don't think I can. You arn't showing any remorse for what you did, and it sounds like you were spreading it on purpose.

The one thing I can say is that I understand how hard it is to tell people when your young, since I'm young now and self-diagnosed because I'm not telling my parents.

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Aaaaayyyy.

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I can very understand we're your coming from Mrstaylor. I myself havent had the courage to tell my partner..but Im terribly ashamed and feel guilty..and yes..so I should be.

I make up so many excuses to avoid sex whenever I have an OB..and would never ever sleep with him whilst having one. I havent given it to anyone else...

I hate myself