Question:
Ok I know I live in the Bible belt....but come on people.Yes I understand there is a styigma attached to my little problem....but cant people be adult enough to see past the nose on there face and realize people don't just run out into the streets and yell "HEY I WON'T HERPES CAN SOME BODY INFECT ME....PLEASE!!!!!!!!! Even though I've been "FIXED" doesen't take away the fact that I'm human and have wont's and desires like ever one else.I recieved this while in a relationship with a woman who told me after the fact....even though we used protection I still got this DAM thing!
Oh....I feel beter....didn't change a thing but I feel better.

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I feel your pain.

I'm not in the bible belt and still find that I don't want to advertise this.

Instead of running through the streets screaming you might want to start asking all kinds of different women out on dates and just have fun. Heck you could be that mysterious man that no woman can figure out and who knows - you could get to be tremendously popular which could result in you finding the one girl that actually sticks.

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I guess I should be more specific. Have fun as in go out and do stuff instead of sitting home and be mysterious by being a complete gentleman and hopefully end up having them chase you trying to figure out why you don't try to be smooth and get them into bed right away.

does that make sense.

I know the younger crowd wouldn't get this but you're my age and I think it would work with our age group. Now that I'm in my 40's I appreciate a guy who recognizes that I know I'm not 20 and I know that I have my act together. I want to be treated with respect and I want to be appreciated for what I am doing right and I don't want to worry about guys leering at the 20 year olds when we are together. I still like to do silly kid stuff but I'm not impressed or wowed by the same things as when I was young and I like a guy who has true opinions and true accomplishments and isn't threatened by my autonomy or independence. There have gotta be ladies like me in the bible belt too.

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Alone in Tulsa I live in Oklahoma and I feel like we may be the only people with H, but I know that is not the truth considering I got it from a person who has lived in Oklahoma ALL his life.

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sorry my reply had nothing to do with what you were talking about. I just got excited when I seen that you were from Tulsa.

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Thank you.....really,I was begining to think I was the only one here with this.(in Oklahoma)
What part of the state are you in? (If ya don't feel comfortable telling here you can send me a privte message).Sorry you recieved this....but it happens,to people from all walks of life.