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So yesterday me and my gf are talking and she has been upset for a few days. She keeps saying that her mother wont let her go back down to florida for school. She and i had been plannin to get an apt together for the past 4 months. Now i believed that cause her mother is mentally unhealthy but then she started saying that she doesnt know how she feels about me. THis is very strange and is out of no where. She always said that she wanted to marry me and i was it. everyday she would say it. I felt the same. I loved her with everything in me. But there's a thin line between love and hate, and once she started to say she didnt know how she feels i am now hating her.

Little history between us, I beleive i gave her hsv-2. So for the past 1.5 months its been very stressful. especially because i live in NY and she in Chicago. she hasnt told her parents which makes it worse because she has no family to support her, I was the only one. I tried so hard but i guess i wasnt enough. I

So now i am stuck with paying for the apt, furniture, and utilities all while greiving being dumped and having hsv 2.

SUmmer sucks.

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OMG, I feel bad for you and the situation you are currently in. Maybe she hust needs some time? Maybe her family is pressuring her? In the meantime, you need to take care of yourself to keep your OBs few to none; preferrably NONE! This is the place you def. want to be for support.

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Yeah after i spoke to my family i actually felt bad for her because she didnt tell her parents about the hsv 2, so i was her only support. i supported everything she wanted to do. She wanted to become a teacher and her family didnt want her to cause they wanted her to have a corporate job. I supported her to become a teacher cause i wanted her happy. I dont understand how a girl could constantly tell me she wants to marry me and be with me forever, then cause of a week of arguing over little bs she wants to call it quits. I'm lucky i have parents that will pay for my apt and furniture but one of the biggest things i hate doing is taking money from them. So i am goin to have to manage school, training, getting a job, then getting a full time job after i graduate.

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oh yeah on a side note cause of this shit im now takin these god dam pills again. Im not talking valtrex, its the ones that swept the nation and fucked alot of lives up. vic's/perc's. i know there not good but its the only thing that will keep me happy. Im so weak for havin to turn to drugs when im depressed.

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Oh fuck. I should introduce you to my ex. I too only just broke it off. Maybe I'm also bi polar. He told me as much. This is the guy whom I love. To bits. But sometimes there are some other reasons why thing don't work out. Like perhaps she's not ready for full time committment and got scared off. That was my reason. It's not always about the other person, its sometimes about the one saying I'm sorry, I can't. Hey it's hard ...... chin up. Who knows she may change her mind and wouldn't want you a medical mess. I hope this does more good than harm. I just wanted to let you know you're not alone. Truth is it can be worse because my ex left his wife of 32 years to be with me and now this. Boy I can BWALLLLLL at wha he is going through now (without the meds) - C

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Hi lucabratzi,

Sometimes these things happen and its nothing what so ever to do with you. The truth is shes probably gotten scared or she is bipolar or her parents miss her or her dog has died. These things happen.

Don't beat yourself up about it mate. If you feel responsible for her because you think your the one who infected her, then try keep in touch, but obviously not too much in touch as thats not going to help your mental stability.

Emotions are always strong just after breaking up with someone but it gets better with time.

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Oh fuck. I should introduce you to my ex. I too only just broke it off. Maybe I'm also bi polar. He told me as much. This is the guy whom I love. To bits. But sometimes there are some other reasons why thing don't work out. Like perhaps she's not ready for full time committment and got scared off. That was my reason. It's not always about the other person, its sometimes about the one saying I'm sorry, I can't. Hey it's hard ...... chin up. Who knows she may change her mind and wouldn't want you a medical mess. I hope this does more good than harm. I just wanted to let you know you're not alone. Truth is it can be worse because my ex left his wife of 32 years to be with me and now this. Boy I can BWALLLLLL at wha he is going through now (without the meds) - C The girl was ready to marry me so i dont think full time commitment was an issure. really sucks cause i was really lookin forward to living together, then this out of no were. Thats crazy though he left his wife of 32 years to be with you, either his marriage sucked or you are amazing. It would take alot to leave a woman after that long.

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Sorry that all this crap is happening to you luca. Maybe it will work out in the end.She just probably needs a little time and space. Just try not to stress too much because that can cause outbreaks.If you dont mind me asking,how old are you two ? BTW, love your name ,he was my favorite.

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HE obviously sees something in me which scares the living daylights out of me. I have a lot of making up to do if he'll have me back. Damn ... I hope your girl also comes to her senses. Thanks for sharing that Luca you've obviously helped me a great deal. Life is very mysterious you know.

C