Question:
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I've been in a relationship for a couple of months (not experienced in dating period) and I have HSVII. I didn't tell him immediately, because it was very rocky...he kept accusing me of things that I was not doing...hmmm. We have had unprotected sex, however, I haven't had an outbreak in almost 2 years. Is it likely that he could have gotten anything from me? He told me that he has been with probably over 100 women! Sadly, I really did fall in love with him and he said he loved me too, but now he's angry and treating me like a leper. Help, if there is any!

Also, my doc said I didn't need Valtrex because I rarely, if ever, had outbreaks.

Answer:
Hi,

Your body is yours. You take care of your body for yourself.
I don't think you should take Valtrex just to keep the relationship. You haven't had outbreak, you definitely don't need Valtrex. And bear in mind, even though you don't have outbreak, even though you take Valtrex, the virus can be shed.

Did you tell him before you guys had sex or after....? (if after, it was your mistake, I think, but..)
Well..... either way.... the fact is he's treating you like a disease. You are not disease, you know that. And... based on this fact... do you think your relationship with him can survive....? Sorry, but I don't think so.

You are in love, you may not be able to see... but look, this guy has been with over 100 women. Probably has been having unprotected sex also. And... do you think he doesn't have anything...? Many people get herpes from the first guy/girl they slept with. There are so many other STDs also. I would say, it is likely that you could've gotten something from him. I wouldn't have unprotected sex with the guy like him in the first place. (rather not have sex itself)

When a relationship has a problem, it's time for you to think through.
I would be alone for a while and calm down, and think if I really love the person or not.

You are not living for him. You are living for yourself.
Love is huge. True love doesn't have to be romantic. Sometimes, just saying "I love you" doesn't mean anything...

Sorry to be blunt. But it's my honest opinion.

Best wishes...

Faith