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I'm 14 years old and i have always wanted a baby but i feel ready to have one now but my boyfriend doesn't what one and we always fight about it . I'm thinking about leaving him cause we want diffrent things what should i do and how can i get what i want with out losing my boyfriend cause i really love him??????????????? :( :cry: :roll:

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I honestly dont think you should have a baby at the age of 14 you should wait.....Trust me it's gonna be hard to have a baby at the age of 14

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You don't want to have a baby at the age of fourteen!!! It's not going to help ypur relationship any better and at fourteen it will be EXTREMELY difficult to handle the responsibility! You can't even drive yet for God's sake! And, if say you did what about if he leaves you. You wanted to be a happy family with him and he leaves, then your life is changed forever and you're going to miss out on being a kid yourself!!! There's plenty of time to have a baby. I have a one year old but I'm a lot older than you. The best advice I can give you is to look at it from EVERY aspect and try to wait until you're a lot older!!!

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Jesus... I can't even believe I'm hearing this... I'm the type of guy that says things straight up or dont say em at all so since you wanted our opinion I think that what you said about having a baby at 14 is completly stupid and immature... I mean are you even being serious or is this a joke... A baby isn't like getting a puppy... Like the other guy said, your not even old enough to drive, how you going to take your baby on her regular check ups with her doctor... You even out of Jr High??? How are you going to finish school when you have a full time baby to take care of... I can't even believe I'm talking about this... Sweet heart you need to grow up, seriously... Get your priorities straight....

Rich

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Believe me you don't want a baby, at 14, babies are a 24/7 365 days a year responsibility, and they are totally dependent on you for everything. Your time will come for a baby, but it is not now. Enjoy your youth, finish school, go to college, find a husband then think about having a baby, you and your baby will be a lot better off. :D

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er..um wow. Where to begin. Oh I know.

Won't it be fun to stay home during all of your proms and roadtrips? OH! Won't it be a blast when your friends call and want you to go to concerts and shows and want you to go with them but DAMN it, you have this baby and OH, you are broke on top of it! HOW FUN!
Unfortunatly when you get to my age, you will barely remember this guy. Trust me, I was 14 ...once.

You need a hobby. LOL

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So I am thinking... someone has too much time on their hands and stumbled across a support board and decided to post a bogus message.

I am really doubting a 14 yearold girl wants to have a baby. If you do really exist... then what makes you think if you break-up with your boyfriend that another guy will want to have a baby with you?

If I was your boyfriend I would have broken up with you the first time you seriously brought up the subject. I don't think I would be able to trust you not to get pregnant on purpose.

Again if you this is even a real post... you need to remember that having a baby affects everyone else not just you!

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It's sad, but the reality is that there are fourteen year olds who really do think they want to have babies. A lot of them are just looking to feel loved and think that's as good a way to get it as any.

Regardless, though...the original post is from March 2003, over two years ago. Why does it keep getting bumped? Especially since it has nothing to do with herpes and pregnancy?

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Oh..I didnt even look at the date. Didnt realize it was old. Sorry.