Question:
have sex with a partner with it and be at least confident that they will not catch on.

ive only ever had two red breakouts but i constantly have little dots (like very tiny that the person couldn't pick) the same colour as my skin.

i am planning on telling my partners abotu it soon as weve started dating, but i want to be confident that its a good chance that she wont get it as i care for her too much for her to go through what i am. (as in not that its physiclaly itchy or a burden on my life) but more the paranoia that if i hook up with someone im gonna have to tell them befor e things get further

Answer:
Oh Lord, Please don't do that to her if you really care about her please tell her its better than risking someone else's life. Everybody body is different and this shit can be deadly have you read upon anything lately. i'm new to this and still coping. But think about it when you were first diagnosed how did you feel. i feel like I have been torured. Please what ever you do don't torture anyone else. Love is Love hate is hate which one will you decide. Now that is what will burden you.