Question:
:cry:


hi,

l have been reading the posts that you all have made.

I am male and hav contracted this Hsv 2 virus 10 yrs ago, even though l did not realize it till recently.

Please tell me can l get married and can , me and my wife ,( if l marry ), can have a child.
or should l resort to protected sex for all my life, with a condom , also will artificial insemination help, or should l not get married at all.

will Artificial insemination, or IVF help me and my wife become parents. So that during the pregnancy the mother and the child will be protected
and subsequently if she agrees can have un protected sex.

I have told the prospective bride about my situation, she says , it is ok with her, but l am having a lot of trouble with , the thought of putting a girl thru all this.


Please advise me,

looking forward to ur reply


\kurian

Answer:
:cry:


hi,

l have been reading the posts that you all have made.

I am male and hav contracted this Hsv 2 virus 10 yrs ago, even though l did not realize it till recently.

Please tell me can l get married and can , me and my wife ,( if l marry ), can have a child.
or should l resort to protected sex for all my life, with a condom , also will artificial insemination help, or should l not get married at all.

will Artificial insemination, or IVF help me and my wife become parents. So that during the pregnancy the mother and the child will be protected
and subsequently if she agrees can have un protected sex.

I have told the prospective bride about my situation, she says , it is ok with her, but l am having a lot of trouble with , the thought of putting a girl thru all this.


Please advise me,

looking forward to ur reply


\kurian

Answer:
Just make sure your wife-to-be knows about your condition and inform her that, even with protected sex, it's very likely that she will be infected at some point during the course of your marriage (the sores spread the infection, even if there is no seminal contact).

As far as conception goes, artificial insemination is a possibility, but even then there is a slight chance of infection.

Basically just make sure she is informed about the whole deal and be blunt about it to see how she feels.[/i]