Question:
I know that viruses are microscopic beyond belief. I am wondering if during an outbreak, when I am with full blown symptoms, I am shedding the virus even through clothes? I don't know if it's safe for my daughter to sit in my lap. I am newly diagnosed (one week ago today), am coping very well, am over my outbreak of one lesion, still some lingering tingling sensations.

Since I found out, I have been rediculously paranoid about transmitting it to my family. I keep my dirty clothes separate and wash them in HOT water daily. Until yesterday, I thought my mouth was contagious, too....so I have basically not let anyone touch me (hard to explain to a 3 year old). I am learning more every day, thanks to this site, but still have a lot of random questions that I can't seem to find specific answers to anywhere else.

Also, my dr. does NOT want to keep me on preventative Valtrex. HE says that is not typically indicated after a first outbreak. He's given me two weeks total, and I had to BEG for that second week. I want to be on the Valtrex for at least a year....to give my body a chance to heal....to not have to worry about it so much (I also suffer from chronic anxiety). Should I see another dr??

Any feedback would be very appreciated!

Answer:
nope - your taking it well over the top now..

the virus doesnt live for long outside the body, and doesnt move thru layers orf clothes....

good on ya for caring, but if that was the case, they anyone diagnosed with HSV would be made to wear latex suits, not allowed in public swimming baths / suanas, not allowed into gyms, not allowed to work in hospitals or with children etc etc


Being on valtrex does not make your body "heal", it simply takes over from the immune system in stopping the virus from replecating...

once you stop the valtrex, odds on you will have a big OB while your real immune system kicks in...

no need to be so paraniod, be careful, but i think your going well over the top now.

Answer:
Thanks gutted. I agree I've been taking it over the top. I tend to be anal retentive--especially when stressed. I think being so meticulous made me feel like I had SOME control over this enemy, ya know? But really, I am relieved that I do not need to be so "sterile" about myself. I consider myself lucky that I feel as well as I do so soon after my intial ob. Still only the lingering vague pinprick sensations. How long do these last?

So, do you think I should seek another dr. to keep me on Valtrex?