Question:
So my bf knows i have gHSV. he did research about it. we talked about it. We worked things out for 1 1/2 months and he told me the other day " I still want to be with you, im not worried about it anymore":grin: im happy that we are going to be together, he is a great guy. He told me he wanted to have sex w/o a condom i was in a bit of a shock but then excited that he felt that way. so, we had sex w/o a condom.

Out relationship is going really good and im happy. But i want to cry, actually i am crying:cry: to think that someone would care about me enough to do that is amazing, but i dont want to give this to him even if he is willing to take the risk, it makes me feel as if im doing something wrong. Makes me feel like if i dont deserve him and he should be with someone without H. Am i overthinking a good thing:confused:

Hope Everyone Is Doing Well.

Answer:
The way I see it is that you should be happy that someone is willing to risk their health to be with you. He wants to give all of himself to you. I know how he feels. I hate condoms because I feel like it takes the intimacy out of it. When your with someone you love you want them to have all of you. Be concious of your body and try to notice if any ob's are coming. And dont be embarassed to tell him. That way he can protect himself.

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Lucky lady! He might be a keeper LOL! That, or you might be stuck with him! The fact that he took the time to research it on his own shows a level of commitment to you. Instead of just freaking out and running away, he got more information. That's pretty awesome. Just be open with him about your ob and you guys should be good to go!

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I'm happy for you to find someone so understanding. But don't forget to protect yourself from something he might have! There are worse stds out there than herpes, so please make sure that he has a work-up done!

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Short answer: yes, you are WAY over-thinking a relationship that is obviously going well and you have no reason to dissect until you make yourself miserable.

Please don't sit here thinking about how much you think he "deserves someone else without H" when he quite obviously wants to be with you. You are not less of a person because you have herpes, don't think that way.