Question:
So after 2 and a half years of being scared to death of dating because of the last guy giving my HPV I have FINALLY got the courage to start dating again and found this really great guy. It is really hard to find a great guy where I live, most guys just want to get in your pants, are potheads, do drugs, are drop outs or deal drugs. This guy does nothing, he barely even drinks and he has an education and likes my son, he also even offered to buy my son the new Spiderman movie because I told him how much my son likes Spiderman, I have had two BF's since my son was born and not one ever offered to buy him anything yet I meet this guy and not even the second time seeing each other he offers to buy my son a movie thats going to cost like 17-20 bucks.

I have not told him about me having HPV yet and I am so freaking scared that once he finds out he will not want to be with me, I like him alot and I know he likes me alot but im so afraid of being rejected. I plan on waiting like a month before telling him, I do not plan on sleeping with him anytime soon which he is fine with and totally understands and I will def. tell him about the HPV before we have sex.

I am actually sitting here starting to tear up because of how much I like this guy and how afraid I am that he is going to not want to be with me when he finds out I have HPV:(, when the time comes how in the heck do I even go about telling him? I mean should I start with how I got it and then just go from there with how we can still date and have sex without him getting infected?

Answer:
I don't have much advice cause i haven't had to tell yet, but i feel for you. The fear of rejection is what keeps most of us in the "closet". For your sake, i hope he does like you enough to look past the virus and remember how much he likes YOU, the PERSON. Best of luck!!