Question:
So I have been dating a man for a couple weeks (like 2). We have only been on 3 dates but I feel like I need to tell him as we are very attracted to eachother....we have been kissed and cuddled and I am really starting to like him very much.

I am so nervous. I can't even concentrate on work today b/c I am replaying what I am going to say.... I strategically planned to meet with him after my yoga class...yoga helps me clear my mind and destress.

Any advice would be so helpful....thank you

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I haven't done it, so no advice just LOTS OF LUCK and you better come back with details!!! :)

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I will definitely come back with details

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So, as planned, I went to his house last night. We had a nice dinner and after dinner while sitting on the couch, I took his hand and told him I had to tell him something. I told him that my last bf misrepresented his health status and gave me a std---herpes. I explained that there are two types, I and II. I told him I have type II. I said "you will probably want to research this a bit", and asked him to be honest with me if he decides that he feels different about us dating eachother.

He had alot of questions. He said he really didn't know anything about herpes and his first thought was he should go and get tested also, he has had a coldsore before. I told him that coldsores on the lips may be Type I. (can you believe that!!!) He said his ex of 3 years got coldsores on her mouth all the time.

He thanked me a few times for my honesty---about 3 times. He then said that he wants to get an appt with his doctor to get tested himself as well as learn more about HSV. He told me that having this doesn't make him like me any less.

I told him that if anything, this experience has made me a better person (he was sweet, he said he doesn't understand how that could be...told me that I was wonderful and a perfect package).

SO I gotta say I am happy :):):) I feel blessed and very strong. I know that this will not change my finding true love

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that is really cool and it sounds like he is a responsible guy. I am happy to hear that this went well for you.

As always you deserve much happiness.