Question:
I decided to check out a dating site for people with Herpes. I checked out Match.com. Although, I had an account there before I know you have to pay, and I can't right now.
Why is it that there are no men listed in VA? I know men in Va Have it, I got it from one. I'm sure people want to hide their identity, as do I from other dating sites. (I had people recognize me on Craig's list, even) And I don't want someone from Plentyoffish or Myspace recognizing me and posting it all over my page.
But, why is it so hard to find profiles? There is a stigma yes, but that is why it's hard to find someone. Any suggestions on how to meet dates? And has anyone had success with one of the sites?

Answer:
I don't like paying for the sites either. I joined postivesingles.com and filled out my profile. As long as the other person paid, and sends you the first email, you can talk. I have met a few people, most are just intended friends, but yea, it's worth a shot right?

As for the not being reconized, use a different name. Like I use ArizonaLove like I do here, totally different than what I use for my messengers. I know what you mean on that tho too, I found my friend cory on yahoo personals one day when I was bored. But a site like positivesingles, you only have others with some kind of STD going so it's exclusive kinda, people aren't gonna find you there unless they are looking.

And then lastly, use a different angled picture, such as a close up or side veiw, makes it harder to identify you.

Hope this helped! Good luck!