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before sex, he was cool with it. Then the next day he called to say he's freaking out about it. He's called a few times since then and we've had good conversations, but he hasn't asked me out again....I feel like it's fizzling out. SUCKS!

We were really into each other and excited about each other....now this. It's hard enough meeting people, but then you click with someone and think it could go somewhere and this has to screw it up!

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I totally understand how you feel... But give it time. Who knows how he might feel a few days from now, or a week from now... :)

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thanks for the positive thoughts Shutterbug...it's already been 6 days....he made a tentative date for Thursday night but then never called. He called last night late night for a booty call, said it wasn't, but seeing as I've called him back today and still no response I'd say it was...bummer!

WTF-frustruating....

At least I was on a date with someone else when he called last night, and this guy is taking it really slow...so hopefully he won't run for the hills if/when I tell him too!

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Wow... I'm so sorry to hear that. Maybe he'll come around... or maybe its ment to be. Just think, now you can screen guys before its too late, lol. Find out if they just want to have sex or a serious relationship.... right?? gotta think positive. :D

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Well, he came and surprised me at an event I held last night! I had no idea he was coming, didn't hear from him all day after my return call and my mass text promoting it...and bam, he walked in the door!

How sweet! I was totally blown away and told him so (although had secretly wondered if he would do this, but brushed it off as magical thinking).

He said he wanted to surprise me, and he had told me how he felt when he said he was freaking out (that he liked me but just had to share his feelings). I said "I know..but" ha...My negative thinking getting in the way again!

We had a great time last night and now I'm all googly for him again ;)

Just had to share the update!