Question:
About 2 months ago i met this guy. Thought he was the best thing that ever happened to me. We waited a little over a month to become intimate (he said he would wait forever if thats what i wanted) A couple of days after we became intimate for the first time he told me he had cold sores in his mouth and had them for a couple days without telling me. I started to panic because i wasnt sure if i gave it to him or if he already had it and just didnt know. So without telling him i went to get tested and came back equivocal (doctor said it was positive) i found out after that equivocal means neither positive nor negative...it means unknown....he got tested when i told him my doctor said i was positive and he came back negative. I waited 2 weeks to retest according to instructions i was given. I also had my ex-boyfriend get checked and he too came out negative. So i got my results back and also came back negative. Throughout these 3 weeks of being stressful my boyfriend at the time backed off and did not speak to me unless i spoke with him. i was more concerned with him then i was with myself i made sure he was ok and every night prayed that we would be ok. I felt that i cared more about him during this then i did about myself or even more then he cared about me. Now that we know we are negative he still has not spoken to me and sort of pushed me away...its been hard to deal with the fact that someone could do that to a person. But im over it now and i have realized that what happened to me was fate. I think god did this to show how people can change in situations like this. And i thank god that it happened because he showed me the real person he was. I think that if anyone cares about someone something like this should not affect anyones feelings. If by chance it does then the person is not worth being with you.

P.S. I joined this website when i was said to be positive and all the stories and experiences made me feel so happy that people could support each other. My heart goes out to everyone....and to all the people who think they can never have a relationship again STOP THAT NON-SENSE :lol: it will make it easier to find that special person who accepts you for who you are

Answer:
It must be nice to have the scare and yet receive good news....
How envious I am.