Question:
ive been dating my boyfriend for four months now, hes brilliant and i im completelyin love with him. However i have yet to tell him bout my herpes. i contracted it a year ago on holiday, i met a guy the usual story etc etc, but thought i was safe as we used a condom. unfortunately NO.
neway, i really want to tell my boyfriend as i know he needs to know if we have any long term potential. but the thing is.......i know i was wrong, but the first time we had sex it was unprotected. we have been careful since, but how can i tell him without him hating me for putting him at risk??? i know i should have told him sooner but i just didnt know how, and the longer it goes on the harder it is.
i would really appreciate some feedback on this...i just dont know what to do.
thanx

Answer:
There is really no easy way to do it..you just have to tell him. What happens happens. It's very likely that he'll get mad, but the longer you wait the worse you are making it for yourself.

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i know deep down i have to tell him, but how will i cope if he decides to leave?
how can i bring the situation up in the first place? its not the type of conversation that i can just bring up is it?
has neone else ever been in this situation? could u help/advise me on the best way to go about this?

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And some people wonder why this stuff spreads like it does !! :roll:

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If you have any sense of decency, you will tell him. If he truly cares for you he may find it in his heart to forgive you and you can work it out. If not, it was not meant to be and you should learn from it.