Question:
ok. so i got diagnosed like 4 months ago. i met a guy and told him before we started dating about the H. everything was going great...... then he started being weird once things started getting serious. Although we hadnt had sex yet.... it was bound to happen soon. he then stopped talking to me for no reason. last night i talked to him and found out that he said we could never have a serious relationship because of my H. what a fucking dick. i swear to god. i finally found a "great" guy and now because of this, he wont be with me. oh well, i sort of understand .... but i'm too nervous to tell anyone about it now.i'm gonna be alone forever if i tell any more guys that i date. oh well life sucks.

Answer:
My advice to you the next time you meet somebody special is to take your time getting to know them. I wouldn't come right out and tell them you have herpes until you see things are leading towards sex. This way the person has a chance to get to know you and realize that you are more than your herpes.

Angela