Question:
:cry: I contracted herpes from my boyfriend / fiance (now ex). He gave it to his ex-wife #3 and knew about it when we started dating. Never told me. He cheated on me with a women named Paula. Paula (whom I know) called and I told her about it. He never told her.

Now, he cheated on Paula with wife #1 and is back with her. I know Mary and feel that he won't tell her that he has it (he lies like he breathes). Even tho' he told me yesterday she knows everything.

I have a copy of my test results from the health department showing I was positive. We slept together only after he said his results were positive - which he now says were negative.

Either way he was re-exposed because I insisted on condoms and he didn't like to wear them. Should I mail a copy of my results to Mary to let her know or hope he really did tell her.

Thank You for listening & your opinions......... :(

Answer:
i wish i could give you a suggestion.

if you don't mind my asking, what is your relationship with mary?

good luck in whatever you decide!

Answer:
I wouldn't say we were really close friends but talked. They have 2 daughters together and (1) grandson & (1) granddaughter. I had lot of contact with the daughters. One of daughters called me "Mom." So, I guess Mary and I had something in common.