Question:
well recently i found some red bumps on my penis.And im preety sure it was from a past girlfreind.I went to the clinic and got tested..and the doc said she was pretty sure it was herpes.So i wasnt really as mad as i thought i was gonna be.But i was mad at my current girlfreind.Throught out this whole thing she was very supportive with it.She was gonna help me find consuling with a group and even go with me.And she was always looking up info and stuff like that..and i thought this was great what she was doing.

But the last couple of days she has been having douts.Saying all this stuff about how she doesnt wanna catch it.And i told her it possible to be with someone while still having this.but it almost seems like shes paronoid about it.So basicly when i get my results back she wants to know.

So if its negetive shes proly gonna stay..but if it positive...then she basicly is proly gonna leave.And i just think that so lame.There are much bigger battles in life than this..this is just like a little bump in the road..but she thinks if she caught it some how..its the end of her life.And last night i started to question her about her love towards me..she says she loves me alll the time..but im really starting to rethink that.Love is a powerful thing and shouldnt be treated like some kinda toy.I love this girl enough to where if she had it..id be right by her side.

So im just so confused about it...how can someone say they love..but you you a choice about this whole thing..its so messed up.

Any advice???

Answer:
She appears to have conditions on her love. She will love you if you don't have it but won't if you do. Has she been tested, she may already have it.