Question:
I am such a complete asshole. I have herpes, got drunk and had unprotected sex with a woman who I did not know. This was 3.5 weeks ago. For the last 2 weeks I have had a couple of sores that will not go away. I am completely freaking out. Do I have HIV? I got tested today and it came back negative, but that's not much assurance right now. Do people with primary HIV have longer lasting herpes outbreaks right after exposure?

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it takes 6 months to get a real pos/neg for the hiv test.
if ur doctor tested u for hiv, and thought u did have it > u would be on medicine.

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More to the point - have you given the woman you had sex with, herpes. Just how up your own arse are you

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Very much up my own arse.

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Quite. At least you have self-awareness.

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Very much up my own arse. Not to be rude, but at least you have the b**** to admit you are WRONG. Maybe you should make a point NOT to drink and infect other innocent people...this is all too familar, sounds like my soon to be ex-husband...thinking of his pleassure and ALWAYS having his head stuck right up his ARSE... :mad:

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dont be so harsh, n0 one wants to pass the virus to others! but we are humans and specially in teenage sh** happens. we all know that.

about the HIV thing, the possibilities are against this if u sit down and think of it, but all ppl should get the test when worried about it. So just make the test and everything is gonna be alright ;)

probably u took your first lesson in sexual behavior (i ve taken this lesson a couple of times since now ;) )

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Don't be so harsh? He knowingly put this woman at risk. And who's he concerned about? Himself.

You're talking to him as if he's 8. He had responsibility - pissed or sobre.

If I'd had caught this virus off someone who knew they had it and never told me, I would feel as as bad as those people who come on here who've experienced just that. Some of the most poignant and most angry messages on here, are by people who have caught it off someone who KNEW they had it.

Have you never heard of grievous bodily harm? That's exactly what it is.

And if you're implying that YOU'VE put people at risk, while taking your lessons in sexual behaviour (what the fuck does that mean) then you too are up your own arse.

Have a nice day ;) ..................

TTF