Question:
i have genital herpes and im scared. The guy im with doesnt know and ive had sex with him alredy. But i didnt know you could spread it if your not on a breakout. And i havent had sex with him on a break out without a condom......Im afraid to tell him. Cuz he asked me when we first started going out if i had anything. Cuz he knew that i had slept with this one guy who has sseveral stds and gave HPV to alot of girls. I did get herpes from him but noone know what do i do

Answer:
I am sorry you have herpes, especially so young, and it is scary. But think how YOU felt that the person who gave it to you didn't tell you. It is not fair to your current boyfriend. I think it is very important that you tell him immediately. Tell him your concerns and fears. The longer you wait, the more pissed off he is going to be. You CAN contract herpes even when using condoms....although condoms DO protect and help prevention, they are not foolproof.

So please, talk to him asap. It is the right thing to do.