Question:
I can't handle the idea of hurting him, of passing this on to him, even if he is ok with it. I only want to share love with him, not HSV-2. It's not fair, I want my sexual bill of health back, I want to make love without worrying, I want him to go down on me, I want to feel untainted.

Answer:
i thought all about this with my girlfriend, told her my feelings, she was adamant she wanted me, for me, all things included, we use protecrion and stuff, hopefully, and i know its not 100%, i wont pass it on to her.

i check myself everyday, and any sign of an OB, im gonna tell her im on my man period, as we talked and decided thats the best thing to do

luckily ive not had an outbreak since weve been together, but i know i will get one sooner or later..

he can still go down on you, you just have to be vigiliant, and be honest with him if u think u mite be cumming up to or on an OB.

i know that feeling tho, "tainted"

me and my girlfriend have a fantastic sex life, infact, as weve been open and honest about things, i find now its better.

chin up, when i do get an outbreak, ill be down on her for two weeks!!!