Question:
I need some advice :? I've been dating this guy for 5 months now and we never really spent time togather. I decided that I wasnt happy and decided to date other people. I meet this guy and we had a great time togather and decided to have a one night stand. BAM!! Thats how I contracted herpes but b4 I found out I had contracted herpes from my one night stand I got intimate with the guy i had been with for five months like 2 days after my one night stand. Soon after I found out I had contracted herpes. Do you think I gave it to the guy I have been with for 5 months. I told him I had contracted herpes but I haven't told him that I cheated on him so therefore he thinks he gave it to me should I tell him that I cheated? I'm hoping he didnt contract herpies from me but then he will know that i cheated on him. What should i do? Just confess now or wait for the heat?

Answer:
Really it depends on your own morals. I think not telling is taking the easy way out. We all make mistakes, and confessing will at least clear your own mind. Would you want someone to tell you if the roles were reversed? For me, if I did pass it on to someone else it would never leave my mind, and I could not let someone think they gave it to me when it was the other way around. Think about what is right for you, and please keep me updated. Take care...

Answer:
I found out that he doesnt't have herpes after I had already told him the turth. I feel relieved though because it made me realize that I dont want him even if he is willing to accept me. We've been togather for almost 6months now and we are no closer than the day we meet so I broke up with him. Thanks for the advice.