Question:
I do not have herpies at least not that I am aware of! My boyfriend that I have been with for about a year, told me about 3 months into the relationship that his friend told him a girl he had been involved with has herpes and that she said he gave it to her. he assured me that he had never had any symptoms, I went to my dr and discussed this with her and she told me if I developed symptoms to come back for a test. Still no symptoms, BUT I found old emails he had sent to women he had met online telling them he had H. I also found he was a member of antopia. (no I did not meet him online) Now he claims that he told them that because he believed he had it. What the hell. Now I dont know!! I cant stop searching for the truth and he isnt going to change his story. He also has a scar on the shaft of his penis (that he said he got from an accident with a flare in the navy) and persistant dry skin at the tip which he claims is a new thing. HELP ME!! WHAT WOULD YOU THINK?

Answer:
I would ask him to be tested just to be on the safe side. I am new to this virus so I am still in the learning faze of it also. I have never had an outbreak until this week when I went to the hospital and found out I had H. I have been with my man for 8 months, he has no signs of this virus so I was very surprised when I learned I had H. I am sorry I can not help you any futher then this, maybe someone else here can give you more of an insight. Good Luck