Question:
This is the first time i've ever posted anything on here. I'm very scared and would like it if someone would help me out
Here is my situtuation..........
Almost 4 months ago i broke up with my b/f of 2 yrs to date someone who i had been infatuated with for ever. We dated for a less than a week ended up having unprotected sex for about 3 minutes (things weren't working to well) we ended up breaking up because of this embarassing moment neither of us were ready for yet. I soon got back with my ex and we are happier than ever now. About a month ago though the boy i had unprotected sex with started comming down with the symptoms which sounds like herpes. I didn't think anything of it because i knew that he had been seeing random girls since (like a new girl everday) and had had a threesome right before he started getting these symptoms. One of the girls who had participated in this ammited to having the same symptoms for the first time.
Well anyways for the past 3 weeks i've been freaking out. As soon as i got back with my ex boyfriend we had unprotected sex because i'm on bc and didn't think much of it. Now im making him use protection and he kinda acts suspicious. But now i think i'm making myself itchy and seeing things that are probably just normal. I have red pimple looking things all around the area where i shave. I was sooo nervous and itchy that i put lotion on down there and that just made everything red!!! One day it kinda felt like i had a burning sensation when i urinated. One day my booty itched a lil. The next day i saw lil white spots on my lips that i thought may be cold sores but they went away after i showered.
Its been 4 months neither me or my boyfriend have shown any real signs I think. I haven't told my boyfriend because i told him that i wasn't with anyone during our break (which i now regret!) I'm just soooooooooo scared out of my mind that i may have gotten this because its soo easily spread. Wouldn't me or my boyfriend show signs by now???? I went to the gyno yesterday and he said that i look pefectly normal but he was going to run a little test to see if i'm a herpes carrier. he said the results would be in in about 2 weeks!!!!! Its been one day and i feel like i wanna die because i'm sooo scared if i do have something that i gave it to my b/F what can i do to calm myself down?? [/quote]

Answer:
I'm in a similar situation-I got blood drawn yesterday and get the results back next Tuesday. The difference is, you don't have any symptoms, so that is a good sign! The waiting is really hard. The first 2 weeks after feeling symptoms (irritation/tenderness) I wasn't able to eat, sleep, or function in general. I got one blood test already, but the bastards ordered the wrong one. I'm still having a hard time and spending way too much time on the internet. I can only pray that this one is negative too.

It looks like all this happened 4 months ago, so the blood tests will be a final answer. However, the fact that you're not showing anything is promising! Good luck.

Oh, another good site you can visit is www.racoon.com.

Answer:
I don't think i have any symptoms..... I just know since i heard that a guy that i was with 4 months ago has this now that i have been feeling itchy and irritated. Might be all in my head but it might not? ehhh i hate this!!!!!!