Question:
i have little white pimples on my penis along the underside which once - one had a bit of white puss come out. the only other symptom i've had is a bit of itchyness - nothing major though. Is this herpes - or could it be? i only lost my virginity a couple months ago and i had them before that. i used protection but today my girlfriend said she had a blister on her vagina. she noticed it about 3 days before she told me. Could this just be coincedence or do i have herpes?

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just to add - I've had these for a year or two. The only ever time i made contact with someone was fingering a girl - who i know had done nothing at all before that. I'm just very worried because of what my girlfriend announced. Is the blister thing a coincedence? she realised it on a night; which earlier that day i fingered her. there are many of these little pimples on the underside of my penis but you can't feel them much if you don't know they are there. Is it possible to get herpes without any sexual contact? or could this be a different type of disease? or am i just worrying and it's all nothing? i'm so confused and worried!

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best way to find out is to be checked by a doctor... good luck.... your girl should be checked too...

side note... condoms are not 100 percent effective in preventing herpes...

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okay - it's just i had those symptoms before any real sexual experiences - and it is in no way a come - and - go thing for me. she sais it's getting better now too... maybe a one off thing for her?

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also - i'm not a guy who gets loads of girls... so i havn't done much at all with anyone. the only things I've done is kiss a few girls and finger one (before this relationship) and she definatly had nothing. can i get herpes naturally? is that even possible?
p.s. sorry about double post again.

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don't have to have loads of partners... just one wrong one....

what I will never get in these forums is... why oh why don't people go to a doc.. I don't care if the symptom is healing... you don't know what it is... and for your woman that could mean an inability to have children in the future... that is a huge risk to take....