Question:
april 1st I met some girl and she gave me oral sex...on the 6th she did again .....Im not stupid I know you can get it from oral sex as well as intercourse but im just filling you in on the story....after each time I was paranoid she might have givin me an std(I am always paranoid about these things) so I decided to try and figure out how many people she has been with she said 12 and shes only 18. great ....now in the last 3 days there is no visable marks on my penis but back where I would shave i guess the bladder area there seems to be a little bit of a rash....and the tip of my penis not by the whole but by where the thicker skin starts on the tip has a really bad burning feeling and maybe a bit tingling once in a while its been doing it for 2 days now....I look and see no marks though....I know I should go get it checked right away but its easter weekend so il have to wait till tuesday so im looking for maybe some answers here...the pain is kind of like a rug burn feeling to describe it the best I can.....my first question is can this be herpes with just oral sex on my penis she didnt touch the rashy area? and the burning feeling with no marks ? My guess is its very possible but I just want some opionions.....and maybe what else it could be? thanks for you time :/ .

Answer:
I have been thinking alot about actully having this and coming to terms with it once I know for shure... One good point is ..I bet alot of us were not carefull didnt know alot about STD's before this...what if we never did get this? we would still be out there with out a worry of an std...and what if we got HIV? what forum would we be at? what would our depressed or bad feelings multiplay with having that? I think one of the postitive things about this is you know 1/4 people have it. It does not kill you...You can have a relationship with it being safe and not worry or have your partner worry about dying. This condition might have saved alot of lives at the price of something far less. because after they got this they were more carefull/educated. I hope this doenst turn out to be what I have but I think it will but even if not this has taught me so much not only about all of this but about life to and how precious it is.