Question:
Hi, the other night I went to a party and got kind of drunk. well I did some stuff with this guy that I didnt really know, we didn't have sex, we made out and he fingered me (it was an awkward situation so it was like for a minute). And later on people were saying that he had herpes, but then they said that they were joking but I'm really not sure. What are the major symptoms and how long does it take for the first symptoms to appear? Because I have a few of them I think, like itching (which is because I currently have a yeast infection) and I had the chills yesterday morning I kept on shaking and under my arms are pretty sore, I also have kind of run down feelings but I just took an amoxicillin pill and I don't really feel crappy anymore. Oh and can you contract herpes if the person was not currently having an outbreak? If you kno anything could you PLEASE tell me because I'm really scared that I might have it!

Answer:
oh yeah and I'm just sore under my arms and under my rib cage if that means anything..

Answer:
I think your risk is very low... unless he had oral sores. Don't go crazy looking for something that isn't there -

take it easy - practice safe sex and pay attention to your body - but don't obsess. If you form a blister of some sort - go see the doc to get it tested - do not stare at the mirror waiting for it to come.... you'll kill yourself with worry.