Question:
hi again

ok im officially loosing my mind with this now. thought maybe i'd get thru it ok since my partner is infected with it. since im one of the very few that probknow where i got it from as its not in my blood but full blown in is, i chose to stay anyways.

im angry. but thats not the issue

obviously i know it does wonders to ones self esteem and ive been scared to have sex. i also have irregular periods and do not take birth control so i often bleed twice a month. (in the 2 months of diagnosis, ive had three outbreaks but not like teh pics ive seen online so im thankful),

so anyways i know it comes around period time.

my problem. a popular one im sure.

hes got no symptoms at all. nothing.

so i decided to have sex on tues his bday. 3 days after period was over.

(unft no we dont use protection bc i figured we didnt since we both have it) WRONG

anyways symptoms appear again yest. this time a pain in my lower groin area, on the left side of my crotch and up a little. today not as severe.

only other symptom beside achiness is the white discharge. is this normal?

it doesnt itch nor smell just gross.

so obviusly im having an OB.

sooooooooo someone please tell me! how do people that BOTH have HSv2 cope if im seemingly getting reinfected EVERY time we have sex?

i guess condoms are the only answer?

next question, i have a tiny blister but not a gross one at all that just sprung up on my inside finger. i only type so i dont think its from writing.

is this f'in herpes too? anyone have a link to this what it would look like?

and can someone please tell me if its safe to wear tampons while there is the white discharge coming out?

sorry so gross i know :(
i just dont know what to do. it seems like its easier to have a non HSV relationship to a positive one, than with 2 people that both have it after reading were playing ping pong only im getting shafted ;(

please advise.

THANK U

Kellie

Answer:
discharge--- i belive a ob discharge is supposed to look more liquidy then say a yeast infection... and have a pale yellow/creamy color.
i wouldnt do the tampoon thing while having discharge from a ob.
it just doesnt sit right in my head... it would be like a invitation for something even nastyer to start growing in ur kitty*

are u taking any meds? - is he on any meds?
that might help with ur reoccuring ob.
supposidly if u have more then 6 a year (ur on ur way) you should def be on some meds.

it might be herpes
http://www.acponline.org/graphics/bioterro/e_minor.jpg
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/e...pages/2163.htm