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Last January I had protected sex with a teenage girl I met online. (I'm was in college at the time)...She told me she was clean and she had never met with anyone before...

We met and had sex for an embarrassing 2-3? minutes? (that's probably generous)...I was super nervous...anyways, I don't jump without parachutes, so of course I wore a condom...after I was finished, I checked it to see if it was busted, it wasn't, it was perfect. I went to the bathroom, disposed of it, and washed my hands well...

she didn't give me oral, and I didn't give her oral...we didn't touch each other...just straight up protected sex...

I became paranoid a little later and got an AIDS check (i get really paranoid)...it came back negative...

okay, on Jan 2nd I had sex with my new girlfriend, who was a virgin before she met me, never slept with anyone, and she hasn't done anything with anyone, and I believe her 10000% ...There is no doubt in my mind that she has done anything with anyone other than me...(we started dating shortly after my experience with the other girl)...

my new girl is from Europe, so when we see each other, we have sex a lot to make up for lost time...We have unprotected sex occasionally, but I never cum inside of her...I'll put a condom on if I want to do it inside...

anyways, we made love one morning, she is always sorta dry and she has a lot a lot of hair down there, so when my penis was inside her, i could feel her hair coming into her vagina and rubbing against the shaft of my penis, it didn't feel too good, but not bad enough to stop...after we made love we got dressed and walked around in Las Vegas for awhile (didn't shower)

the next morning I woke up and went to the bathroom and felt three medium/big red bumps on the shaft of my penis, on the right side, where the hair was rubbing me...they didn't itch, burn, anything...i didn't know they were there...i tried to pop them and a little stuff came out, but it hurt to squeeze that sensitive skin down there... i didn't pay it any attention and went about my day...

the next day the swelling was down from them, and they were starting to go away...about 3 days after i first saw them, they were basically gone away...and today is 7 days later and you can see very vague red smooth marks where they were...

they were also not together, they were in the shape of a triangle, about a half inch from one another...

so of course, being paranoid, i'm panicking about the herpes from the first girl from last january...

(I seriously trust the new girlfriend with all my heart)

so of course I have been expecting my penis on every bathroom check...

everything feels fine now, but for the past few days i felt like my tip of my penis was burning...just a little burn...today i feel fine, i think!

I also masturbated 2 days ago, and rubbed the skin a little raw between the shaft and the head, so that could be the burning i'm feeling...

should I be scared?

I never had any sickness, sore throat, lymph nodes swollen, itching, anything

and I never had these bumps before, except when i was sexually inactive and there would be just one bump...

anyways, I'm worried

would appreciate some responses...

Jack

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PS when I say the girl never met with anyone before, I meant online...she told me she had 3 sexual partners

and after we had sex...about an hour later i came home and washed all my sheets and took a hot shower and scrubbed every inch of my body in shame...:-(

I'll never do this again, not because of the STD thing, but just because I need attachment...one night stands aren't for me

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I don't want to seem pessimistic here but it is very likely you have an std...and yes it very well could be herpes. You wrote "...and I never had these bumps before, except when i was sexually inactive and there would be just one bump.."
If you have EVER had 1 or any bumps in that area previously then there is a huge chance you have had this for a while and never recognized them as symptoms yet. It is very common for people to have it, never have symptoms, or have such mild symptoms they never would think it was an std and never know until one random day. There is a chance your new g/f could have had something and not known as well. You both need to get tested asap and then you will know what you are dealing with. Remember: it is very possible to spread herpes (if that's what it is) through many different ways, not just penetration. If someone has an active area (lession or nothing there but has invisible viral shedding) anywhere on their body, and that area touches another persons body, they will become infected. It can also be as simple as if someone has an active virus outbreak or invisible viral shedding and touches themself, then with the same hand, touches their partner....the virus is then spread to that other person...it's that easy. Get blood tests done as well and ask your doctor to explain which type of antibodies are found in your blood(if any) and if they are new antibodies, or older. This will help to know who had it first if one of you has newer antibodies, and the others are older. They present differently....newer ones would indicate that you have been recently infected sometime within 5 months ago up to now....that is what my doctor explained to me and that is how I found out that my boyfriend gave it to me...since my antibodies were new and his were old. Just to note too.....he never had a symptom ever while we were together for 3 years prior to our diagnoses and he never knew he had it and I truly believe him. I never got it and we had sex all the time, never used condoms, and for 3 years I remained uninfected until one day I got a horrible outbreak. When thinking back he said he could vaguely remember getting a tiny bump or irritation on his penis in the past before we were together, but thought it was so slight that he thought it was just an irritation from masturbating or vigorous sex. I hope you don't have herpes...or any std for that matter....but if you do...this is a place that can help. I just found this site yesterday and wish I had found it a year ago when I first found out. Good luck to you. Maybe it is nothing or just something that can be quickly fixed with an antibiotic....

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I mean I had a bump or so when I was sexually inactive (virgin)

my new girlfriend doesn't have anything...I'm positive of that

the other girl swears she has been tested many times and she has nothing...

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also, i've been dating my girlfriend now for a super long time...and she hasn't showed any symptoms...i think the chances of us both not showing symptoms would be very rare...

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how long do herpes 2 bloodtests take to come back?

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In the UK routine STD check-ups do not include herpes - so she may not have been checked for herpes

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You situation is pretty much same as me. After I did what I did got panic.
Go to your doctor and get tested because the assumption is worst than the reality. This site is very good to learn about the condition and by learning and reading all the stories here you'll learn that we can have a normal life with good sex!!

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it is very possible you both never showed symptoms just so you know.......way more possible than you would ever think. Also, just because you were a virgin didnt mean you didnt have it yet either.....just touching anyone with it, or oral sex from someone who has it, or giving it to someone who has it (all possible without visible symptoms too) you could get it. If you even touched someone where they had viral shedding (no symptoms and never knew they had it) and then touched yourself you could have gotten it. It is so much easier to get than people think. ....miseducation is what leads people to be in such disbelief when they get this horrible disease. Don't be naive......get the facts from a doctor.