Question:
Hi, I just found out that i got herpes genital last week.. My vagina was in pain last week so I went to the doctor and shockingly found out that I got herpes, I got it from my bf's coldsore lips. I was having the worst outbreak ever and in bed for several days. Since me and my bf found out about this, we stopped kissing and sex of course. I m just wondering if I can still kiss him, is my siliva contagious, can I still give him oral sex?( I believe that he doesn't have it down there as we always use condoms) and the fact that he has cold sores.. is he contagious when he doesn't have an OB on his mouth? Thank you so much!

Answer:
if u dont have it oraly, theres no way ur can spread it oraly.
if u have sex with him, then yes even w.o having a active ob u can spread it.

yes he can.

Answer:
(yes he can.) means he's still contagious even when no coldsore in his lips?? if so, do you think the chances are high for me to get HSV 1 from kissing him? thanks!