Question:
two questions; i got gh from husbands coldsores so can he perform oral sex on me or will it make his coldsores worse and more fequent.also can i infect him in genitals even if he allready has the virus orally. thanx!:confused:

Answer:
I'm not sure if by him giving you oral it will make his sores more frequent, but it could definitely infect more areas around his mouth.
Yes, you can give it back to him genitally.

Answer:
Since your husband has had herpes for some time, he has a mature immune response to the virus and thus has antibodies throughout his system to protect him against a new infection. It is highly unlikely that you would transmit back a new infection to him. Don't let this interfere with your mutual pleasure. The only precaution that is usually suggested is that you avoid risky contact when there are symptoms.