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Hello and thanks to everyone who has helped during this trying time, I wanted to update everyone and give hope to others who have been recently diagnosed with the H. Well from my earlier posts I havent really heard two words from the guy I was seeing since he told me he was negative, But Im ok with that because from all the positive things that others have wrote im incouraged, I have unhid the profile that I had up on a non h dating site and updated it and have had possitive results, also joined an H dating site and have had a responce there as well. I came to the conclusion that even though what we all received sucked :x its also a part of me I cant change and the rest of me has stayed the same so why should I hide or be affraid to let people get to know me like before, now H is just another thing that will untimately help me judge ones carector better, and who wouldnt want that gift. I know that in time things will get even easier but I beleive that acceptance is where the key lies, and the more that I accept this and the fact there are people out there who will accept others with H if its work the risk, well dammit Im worth the risk!! Thanks again everyone this site has been so theraputic for me. :)

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YOU GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Your boyfriend could have a negative result and have H. From what I've learned it's a very hard virus to detect, especially without lesions. Because about 75% of people carry some form of H.

Anyways, it's nice to see you're positive. I'm trying my hardest to stay the same. And even though I'm in a relationship I'm not going to let this get me down. As of right now my bf doesn't have it. He's going for a blood test, but I've heard they are not acurate. So we'll continue to act as if he doesn't have it.

But I won't let this get me down. If he decides to leave me (or if he decides he can treat me like dirt because I have this), I'll be strong. Sometimes he seems to think I'm only with him because I have this and I can't find someone else.

But I know we can. Whether it's someone who also has the virus or someone who doesn't. This forces us to get to know people on a more personal level BEFORE becoming sexual with them.

At least you can tell at that point if a person truly loves you for you.

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bravo bear read my reply to you on the previous post of mine.

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you are correct....most ppl have some form of h and most don't know it. it is a human thing to have.

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Does anyone know of a good H dating site? I didn't know such a thing existed. I have been thinking I would never be able to date again.

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hey ebear, youre so right about knowing someone on a personal level before being sexual with them, honestly i should have thought that way from the start then maybe i wouldn't be in this mess!! thanks see ya