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I am 21 years old and my life has completly changed. I dont even know how to deal with all this. I am going to a rehab center for the sexual assaluted. and now I have to live knowing that I might not be married and have a family. My first thought is who is going to want to be with me?!

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Dolce YOU will find someone to be with you as long as you dont let everything that happened to you stand in the way. there are men out there who dont care about things like that. I felt and thought the same thing who'd wanna marry a girl w/ herpes.As long as people are educated about this it makes it alot easier I met a guy who told me he didnt care I had herpes and still wanted to be w me. so there is people who arent selffish and will wanna be w u just dont give up hope

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Dear Dolce,
I'm so sorry to hear what happened to you but you can not let this control the rest of your life! Try to rise above this. What does not break us can only make us stronger. YOU will find a man and he will be dame lucky to be with you! Yes you were a victum of an aweful sex crime, but that can not allow this fact to define the rest of your life. You can either face the world now stronger and more beautiful, or play the role as victum. As long as you are comfortable with yourself, and love yourself, finding a man will be no problem! LOL

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Dolce - I've been exactly there and I want you to know that you can and will have the life you dreamed of. There is no reason you can't find a loving husband and have a family.

Rape is a crime of violence and those memories can stay for a long time but what you do with your life from now on is how you overcome that violence by being happy having a full and productive life and holding your head high and not letting this change who you are inside and who you will be. Never be ashamed of yourself. Never let anyone tell you that you can't have your dreams come true. You can and you will.

Time is truly on your side. Now is as good a time as any to decide that you deserve only the best. Honestly it's hard right now but each new day will get a little easier and yes you're stuck with a nasty reminder of that horrible event but you will be okay. There are a lot of great people on this forum who have wonderful information and inspiration to offer.

My best to you.

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Wow everyone. I can't thank you enough for all your kind words. It has truly helped. i am just going to focus on me for a change and live the life i always wanted to live. I know God has a plan and I am going to stay focused. Please keep in touch. This is all new to me and I am still trying to educate myself. God bless.

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God does truly have a plan and it includes your happiness. :-D

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I'm sorry to hear about what has been happening to you Dolce. That is terrible, what happened to you. Healing will be hard, but stick with it!