Question:
I might have herpes, and if I do, I have gotten them from my boyfriend. But every time I try and talk to him about it, he gets mad and says he doesn't want to talk about. He and I do need to discuss it, because it is serious. How can I get him to talk about without him getting him mad and yelling at me and walking away?

Answer:
You say you believe you may have herpes I would encourage you to confirm it first. He gets mad at you when you try to talk about it. What's he getting mad at you for?Is he trying to avoid the truth like how the disease get into your relationship in the first place? Maybe since he infected you and I say maybe because you are not sure, he thinks no one else will want you and you probably think or feel thatb way to. I know it may seem like that now but it's not true. Seek counseling (couples variety) or think about moving on and getting yourself healed. I keep going back to he may have infected you but bhe get angry when you try to talk about it as if you have no right. Good luck.:o

Answer:
Sounds to me like he knows he has it.

cant be 100% sure, but anyone who gets defensive and mardy when questioned is hiding something.

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He gets mad cause he says its his fault he mad me sick, and he didn't know he had. He was my first so, he knows he is the only person that can infect me.