Question:
my 'friend w/ benefits' wrote me an email this morning in a very angry manner, informing me that I gave him herpes. He was really mean.
This came as a HUGE shock. I started shaking and crying.
The only symptoms I can think of having are having red bumps in my pubic hair, some of them had fluid. I popped them like zits. I always thought they were zits or ingrown hairs. Most of the time hairs come out of them. I have never had clusters of any kind, and never inside the vagina. He says it's definately me, because he used protection w/ the girl he slept w/ last time. I am in shock and very scared. he tested positive, so now either way, I have to have it. Help

Answer:
First of all - if you did have it - you didn't know - so let that guilt go.
Go get tested - the "bumps" you describe sound like possible HSV - but you'll have to have a doc tell you that -

as for your"friend" - he'll get over his anger - get some facts, then if he's worth it - talk over the situation - try and understand where he's coming from - maybe as he learns more he can understand that you didn't know.

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thank you for the good advice, I am going to the doctor this morning. Things aren't looking too good. I am trying to stay strong. Thank God I have my sister for support. Shes an angel

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I went to the doctor, and she saw nothing physically wrong w/ me. So, they are testing me for every STD under the sun, as well as HIV. I have never seen anything that scared me enough to go to the doctor, and the only person that could have given it to me, I saw one time in Jan or Feb.
and never saw him again.
The guy that is accusing me, wont even talk to me, he would rather be a child about the situation. I don't even know if he had been diagnosed yet when he accused me. He couldv diagnosed hismself for all I know.
So, now I am waiting for the results. Aren't I supposed to have seen some kind of obvious signs by now?