Question:
will masturbation really make you break out again?? why do i feel like i have to watch my every move??

i feel okay down there, just got over my furst ob, but i feel like everything i do could cause an ob. i am drinking sprite at the moment and wondering if my vagina will hate me for it later....

if i practice safer sex, ie. sex w/ myself, why would i get punished for that too??

ahhhh

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you shouldn't be afraid of yourself. if you are in the middle of having an ob the area is pretty darned angry and may flare up but once stuff heals you should be just fine.

not everyone has problems with foods or triggers. take the time to figure out what works and doesn't work for you.

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and what about the first time i have sex again?

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if you're really worried wait a few weeks after the ob ends. for me a week is fine just to be safe. I don't have ob's from sex.

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I just had sex agai nfor my first time since my first outbreak. I was nervous because it seems like a whole new ball game now. But it turned out to be wonderful.. I was scared of an ob as well. it has been two days since and just fine. We just used plenty of lube so to speak to avoid any extra friction. Seemed to work for us. Good luck. Dont be scared. How will you know unless you try?

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Maybe I shouldn´t be writing this post to not to scare you but I get ob one week before my period, when I am sick, when I feel down and when I have sex. Well I have only once had sex since I got this stupid virus and the next day I got an ob. I was on a suppresive therapy - took 400 mg aciclovir and I still got it. This fucking virus is making me really sick! Since october (this was the first time I was infected) I have had more than 20 ob´s. When I have it I am depressed but when not I am fine. I told many people that I´ve got herpes and everyone says it isn´t such a big deal. Well it isn´t such a big deal if you can live a normal live. but will I ever be able to do that? will I ever be able to have a normal sex live again? Beside this virus I´ve got a streptoccocal infection too. My body is quite strong to fight off this bacteria so I don´t get any symptoms but I still have to take antibiotics every 2 months because it is hard to get rid of it with only one treatment. my doc told me that some people have to be treated with antibiotics for more than a year to get rid of this bacteria. Both herpes virus and streptoccocal bacteria can damage your immune system and when your immune system is busy with the bacteria the virus gets activated and when your immune system is trying to fight off the virus than the bacteria has the chance to spread. Isn´t this great! It must be something like never ending story. I hate it and I am starting to hate my life. I really don´t know what to do!!!

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have you tried any of the other remedies posted on top of your meds like lysin? I have'nt but doing some shopping for herplex, lysin, b 12 and vitiman c. just to be safe.

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I take some vitamines, I drink green tea, I used to take 3 spoons virgin coconut oil daily but then I gave it up, I thought I shouldn't be taking it forever. Maybe I should try all this again + lysin. Will see but I slowly give up. If I am not ok after almost a year maybe it is gonna be like this forever. I am a healthy person, eat properly but don't know if the bacteria is the problem or something else. anyway, thanx for listening :)

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This fucking virus is making me really sick! Since october (this was the first time I was infected) I have had more than 20 ob´s. When I have it I am depressed but when not I am fine.

I haven't got any words of wisdom (:confused:) I just wanted to say that sounds JUST like me. People may think you're exaggerating saying you've had over 20 but that's about what I've had. And yes, when I'm not having an OB I'm fine.