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hi, i am very nervous like everyone else

i let a promiscuous woman who has had oral cold sores in the past give me oral sex for about 3 seconds while I was soft.

i quickly got up and washed off with soap and water.

i thought i saw some kind of bumps on her lip area but she told me she didnt have any cold sores at the moment and knows when she does.


please help shed light

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please help im so torn up over this

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Well it's POSSIBLE but you'd have been very unlucky to have caught it. And the fact you washed straight afterwards will have reduced the risk.

You do know that as many as 80% of the poplation (I think figures are for westernised countries) have oral herpes?

Promiscuity, per se, has nothing to do with it.

If you continue to be worried - see your doctor (or STD clinic).

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Well it's POSSIBLE but you'd have been very unlucky to have caught it. And the fact you washed straight afterwards will have reduced the risk.

You do know that as many as 80% of the poplation (I think figures are for westernised countries) have oral herpes?

Promiscuity, per se, has nothing to do with it.

If you continue to be worried - see your doctor (or STD clinic). Yes I know that many people do...but probably not many have cold sore breakouts right? This woman did. She said the last one she had was in December, though I thought i saw some bumps on her lip, she said they werent a cold sore.


My question I guess is that does the amount of time of exposure matter? Or is that irrelevant? I mean she sucked on my non erect penis for about 4 seconds and my scrotum for 3 seconds before I got up and washed off.

Also, I believe about 6 years ago I tested positive for having hsv-1 antibodies. Would that give me protection?

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since when did ur penis make contact with her lips?

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since when did ur penis make contact with her lips? last night when she had my penis in her mouth for about 5 seconds

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5 second rule.



IT WASN'T 6 SECONDS WAS IT!?!?!? :shock:



Dude, I hope you learn something from this. Like stay away from crack smoking ho's. And if it's too easy, there's a reason. And... you should be ok, this time.

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thanks for lightening up the mood for me.

do you say I should be good this time just because the odds are with me or do you say I should be good this time because 5 or 6 seconds of potential expsoure plus washing w/ soap 45 seconds later isn't a transmission risk?

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Latest studies show - 6 seconds good, 7 seconds bad.

I'm joking.

Also, I believe about 6 years ago I tested positive for having hsv-1 antibodies. Would that give me protection?

Well then you've already got type one right? And what she has might be type 1.