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Hi everyone
I have a question... it may sound dumb but please bare with me and understand my cersarn(SP)
Ok about 2 weeks ago i went and bought a .. dildo...the store was kind of bad...but not all that bad anyways i opened it.. and about 3 days later i i used it. I put it on my boobs and clitouris.
now about 3 days ago i got this big pimple like bump on the outside of my clitouris witch is very painfull,,, i thought noting about it...being a virgin..and today i looked withe a merror and say like 5 small pimple like buts on the opining of my viganina (SP) witch dont hurt...everything itches.. iread online about the fever and flulike systems i have all of the above and the pictures look alot lke the little pimples... and my tip of my nipples are sore and crusty.
ok so my question is.....when i got the dildo i wased it before using it with soap and didnt use it for 2 or 3 days....anyway the virus could live on the dildo that long?
and are the thing i discribe sounding like herpies...or anyother std...and can anyother std live long on a dildo and survive the soap.
sorry if isound stupid i just sooo worried i cant sleep its all i think about...and help would be so noce thanks

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wow i hope you can undrstand that post...sorry i tiped fast

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I have been reading about herpes too (lately). From what I have read I would have to say it isn't herpes, because the soars would be painful. Maybe it?s an allergic reaction to the soap. Or you could be allergic to latex rubber, if that?s what it was made out of.

But for future reference, I think you are supposed to boil dildos to clean them properly.

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Hi,

Did you read EVERYONE SHOULD READ THIS article 2 final by Richard in this forum? If you didn't, you should read it. It will help you to understand herpes.

I don't think that you can get herpes from things other than directly from someone's skin.
Also, you can get pimple in that area, and it would be painful also. That might be it.....

Or... some kind of dermatitis...? Allergic to soap...?

Well..... that's all I can think of.....

Best wishes..

Faith

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My first thought was allergic reaction to the material the dildo was made of or to the soap used to clean it etc...

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Hi everyone,
sorry about the misspelled words and all the mistakes. Thanks you soo much for all your replies!! I feel alot better about this all. Its just I am still very worried. It feels itchy everywhere down there... maybe im parnoied. The big bump is still there and hurts... it feels hard... do hepers blisters feel hard... its like the size of a almond..well maybe alittle smaller. And the bumps that are closer on the inside (about 7 bumbs ) are small and ligher colored and its red around them. and it kind of burnes in that area. more burn the itchy. What about my nipples... what could that be? i never looked at them that close before is it normal to have them be crusty? Just alittle crusty...
Im never using that dildo AGIAN!!!!! I have been a reck thinging about all this I pray alot for it to be a rash or something...maybe a cysts,,, yeast infection... i don't know i just really want it all gone!! also i ended my period a week ago and today i notced a drown discharge...witch has never happend to me before... and slite admonial pain... i dont know . i have been known to worry alot, i just pray its my head playing tricks on me... please pray for me... i want to thank all of you for your support and comments,,, it really helps alot,,,,, more comments would be nice.
Thanks all!!!!
Jessica

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Hi Jessica,

Hmmm.... I still don't think that you can get herpes from those "tools".

But... I'm a bit concerned... because you said 7 small bumps? Discharge..?

Well... although, women can have a lot of discharge when something emotional happens, or some hormonal changes, .... when I had herpes for the first time, I had a lot of discharge. That was the first very unusual symptom that appeared.

Did you ever have cold sore on your lip? Did you ever have any kind of sexual contact with anyone before..?

Well... I think you should go see a doctor..
It could be something simple. It could be some hormonal change. But I think you should let a doctor check it.

Please take care..

Faith

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hi faith.
thanks for you concern,
No i have never had a cold sore before, no have been with a guy anyway other then kissing...
I know before i saw little bumps like that before... and the obgyn said it common..but im so worried because of the big bump..and my nipples...can you get herpes on your nipples?...also is there anyother kind of std that would live on the dildo??
the only way i could have gotten herpes is from that dildo.. i haven had any kid of sexual exsperance before...was you discharge brown???, im thinking maybe its remnious of my period...my period only lasted 4 days and is usually 5 to 6... so i dont know, i know i need to go to the doctor... its just i dont have a car and i'm NOT telling anyone... because the first thing my mom would say...is who are you having sex with...she would assume and acuase me of it... im sure the doctors would too... so im not going inless it get anyworse... im checking it often/// also with out medication how long would it stay?
did i ask if theres anyothe std ..with these sines that could live on the dildo?? ok well thanks soo much
Jessica;

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No, the herpes virus is easily killed by soap and water. What you have is not related to Herpes Simplex. But stay weary and continue to becareful in the future.