Question:
ok, so i was diagnosed about 3 weeks ago. and of course when i first found out i got extremely depressed, thought my life was over, and laid in bed for about 4 days. but as the symptoms starting going away, i dealt with it just fine. or, actually i didn't deal with it at all. i don't really like talking about and i just pretend it's not there. until i have to actually deal with it physically. i don't know what to do, i hate thinking about it.

and another thing...i am bisexual, so if i want to be intimate with a girl is that just out of the question? how do i protect my partner?

Answer:
You still need to tell a lady if you're going to be involved with her. It's not out of the question, she'll need to make the same decisions any guys would.

If you're super-paranoid you can purchase latex gloves and dental dams off the internet to ensure no risk of passing on herpes through oral or manual stimulation.

Answer:
hey thanks for the reply :). i guess the hardest part is telling the other person...ugh