Question:
I hooked up with a abslotue skank German girl (hoe) last week. I thought she was clean, and she wasn't. :oops: What should I do? She also gave me Mono. Do you guys know anything about Gohnorea? Man, the sores are oozing and it has only been a week. I have Pics! Man what a terrible way to start the new year. Additianlly, if I go down on my hot male live in nurse will he get the herpes too? Can the herpes live in my Anal cavity? Sorry for being so forward. I am only 17!

Answer:
Mathew,

I have a little problem with that people call their girlfriend/boyfriend/one night stand partner "hoe". She must've been beautiful to you, before you found out that she gave you some disease. Now she suddenly became a hoe...? Just don't understand it...
When you have sex with someone, you are always responsible.

Did you go see a doctor already? If you didn't, go see a doctor immediately, and show the sore, and get tested.
You've got the sore on your lip? If it's herpes, there is a possibility that you've been having the virus for a long time, and you just got a symptom now. You might not get it from her...

Also, read "EVERYONE SHOULD READ THIS article 2 final" by Richard. It's in this forum, under Everything Herpes. It'll answer your question.

Please take care of yourself.......
And go see a doctor, if you didn't yet. Don't assume anything.

Best wishes...

Faith

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Well she is technically a "ho". $50. They are supposed to be tested over here. I am in Germany and it is legal.

Answer:
You said "technically".......................(???)

Anyway.
Make sure, you go see a doctor, and get some treatment ok?

Please take care..

Faith

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I've got .50 that this kid is a troll....

If you are for real 'Matthew'

I think your issues are much deeper than anyone on this board can address.

Good luck to you... Keep it in your pants... :roll:

Answer:
Hello Mathew,
I can sympathize with you if you have a cold sore.
I used to suffer a lot. I would like to share
my experience with you by letting you read
my book. In return, all I ask is for your
testimonial telling me what you think of
the book and method to treat.
Let me know if you are interested.

ps. :( Cold sores are forever and they
could have just been sparked, not actually transmitted
recently. You have to learn to manage them.

-grace (email: coldsorefreedom@aol.com)

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I've got .50 that this kid is a troll....

If you are for real 'Matthew'

I think your issues are much deeper than anyone on this board can address.

Good luck to you... Keep it in your pants... :roll: I'm with you MC. God love Faith for giving him the benefit of the doubt. She is an angel.

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There is a chance this guy is for real in which case Pilot is close to the mark. There are some deeper issues going on. However, if he is as young as all that he may really just be making some incredibly unwise choices and using some inappropriate language.

Mathew,

Despite the prostitution trade being legal in many places around the world, safety during sex with untested/unknown partners is unwise. Places like Amsterdam and Nevada and on porn shoots etc...all these women and men have paperwork showing they have been recently tested which they must provide if requested. I have never been to Germany and I'm not sure if I did know it was legal there. I've just found a quote actually:

"The Eros Center in Kiel is one of Germany?s biggest licensed brothels. The standard price, DM50 (about US$ 30) has not changed since 1992, which means it has dropped to one-third the real value since 1992. ("Giving the customer what he wants...," Economist, 14 February 1998)"

So, it seems the prostitution trade has undergone some drop in quality. It would seem too, that there is a lot of forced prostitution and even slavery going on (the site is http://www.uri.edu/artsci/wms/hughes/germany.htm is anyone cares where I found the info)

Regardless, you have this virus in you now and you could absolutely pass it on to someone by any means of skin to skin contact with infected or shedding areas. Depending on the type this could include oral sex, anal sex, ALL sex. (That's another thing that really gets me...young white kids are the fastest growing infected population. How many of these CHILDREN don't even realize they are at risk because to them "It wasn't sex" and "But I'm still a virgin" Responsibility has to start as soon as transmission has the potential to occur and BEFORE so that one knows WHEN it is possible).

Again, I'm a babbler... I agree that "hoe" (with or without the "e") isn't a very nice word to use. If we are discussing things intelligently we can use intelligent words. Given my current nick some of you may think me a hypocrit, but I guess I have developed my own relationship with promiscuity and since that is the fundamental thing in my life that now must change....I'll likely change my nick with it as my old mind gets more comfortable in my new skin. Also, I hope it shows, not a disdain for myself or my previous lifestyle (again, I have always been safe and tested, and my risks were my own...I have always also been caring and giving and honest with my parteners...now that I have this disease those standards must not change....I have to tell whoever is in my life next...which may take a LONG time--before I consider anyone else being in my life that is) but a real openess to all types of people and all types of choices. EVERYONE needs support and I know there are a whole lot of different types of people in here.

So, I guess I too am giving Mathew the benefit of the doubt. Can't help it, I like people.

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quick thing:

first of all I wish to correct myself saying that all places with legal sex industries in estabvlished areas employ people with appropriate paperwork. Everyone knows how easy it cam be to get around paperwork especially in such a sketchy field.

Also, I actually HAVE been to Germany but it was only for a few hours between planes between New York and Dublin =} There I was introduced to weissbeer which is one of my life's little joys =}