Question:
yesterday i could feel that 'tingling' stage when you know you are about to get a coldsore, my boyfreind and i were having sex last nite kissing & all that when i gave him head, i am very young and did not realise coldsores were a form of herpes. what i need to no is because we were kissing and i then gave him head & we had sex after that and i gave him more head does this mean he has herpes? even though my coldsore did not actualy break out until this morning? please help me how can we help this?

Answer:
despite contrary belief, i'm guessing the chances are relatively low. i've been reading other forums. a doctor answers their questions and basically he tells others that there's a good chance u don't have herpes if u don't get the blisters and stuff. he also said there's a very low transmission rate if you don't see sores. man, think of it, so many times we can't even get cultures done on our herpes leisons even when there ARE large pussing sores.

i believe it possible to transmit it without sores but not as often as these discussion boards claim it to be. don't let these ppl on these boards scare you. they like to play it safe and leave a LARGE buffer. btw, don't tell ur bf. it'll probably make him worry sick. if symptoms occur, tell him the possibility. until then, go ur merry way.