Question:
ok, here is my story.. i work with this guy and he is 2 years younger than me, and i have alot of feelings for him but i think his only attraction to me is physical because i model and im cute and i think sex is all he wants.. but we have hung out for a while off and on and we ended up having sex together. he jokes around more than other guys do, but after we did it he said " you might be giving me a call in a few days but dont worry about it" i told him to shut up because i figured he was joking, and also we didnt use a condom. now its been about 5 days ago and this morning i woke up feeling discomfort and like dry and i dont know if maybe thats normal and im psychin myself out, or if its a disease and i just dont know it, but i havent a clue which one it could be. and to top all this i have found out that he sleeps around ALOT i mean alot more than average, like has been with over 40 different girls and now im scared. hes still young too only 18 and i myself am 20, i have not been with alot of people, and have never been afraid like this ever. i just dont know how to deal with it, and i hope that its nothing, if u can help please do. thanks

Answer:
Hi. I have been afflicted with herpres for 20 years. It sounds like you have something and need to be seen and diagnosed by a Physician. When I was first diagnosed, I had a very painful outbreak. I went to the doctor and was tissue tested and it was positive. I haven't had a bad outbreak like that since that time. A few years later I had a different outbreak that was not properly tested, I chose to believe the doctor when she said it was not herpes. I was married at the time and we were careful. I got herpes from my husband prior to our marriage. We divorced and I slept with some other men but had no outbreaks. I didn't always practice safe sex. I met someone special and one of those unsafe exposures gave him the gift that keeps on giving. We remain friends but that's it. At the time of my first diagnosis I was in denial and I did not receive or pursue education, something that I regret to this day. I do puruse education, support and reaching out as a means to cope.

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If I were you, I would get all the information you can on this guy and talk to a lawyer. I am going through a some-what similar situation. Also, you need to go to the doctor and get checked out. I went for 6 days before I went and it got really bad. Go now, and you will be able to start treatment sooner assuming that's what it is. It's just not worth waiting longer than you have to. About the guy, sue him for knowingly giving you a disease. If a person was to do that with HIV they would get life for committing murder. I wish you the best and if you wanna talk more, give me an email and I'll be glad to discuss anything you want. :) :) :)

Wicedsgirl

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something that's important to remember:
IF you do have herpes or some other STD, it's NOT the end of the world. anyone who cares about you enough will accept you as you are. so, basically, you won't be able to sleep around - how sad(sorry, gotta have a little sarcasm!). just go to the doctor and get tested (make sure you request to be tested for herpes). if you're fine, then move on with your life and take this as a lesson for future relationships. if you have an STD, get the proper treatment and try not to obsess over it...doing so doesn't help physically or emotionally. and, of course, there are always people to talk to.

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If you are single, there are dating sites available.

Any regular user of this site knows by now there are dating sites out there also.

I am in the Kansas City area. I post at a local group site also. At that site there is a brief list of sites rated in terms of usefulness to singles.