Question:
Hi just wanted to share some thoughts. I contracted herpes about a year and a half ago from a horrible predator of a man who only uses woman. I have learned so much since that time. I have spent so much time feeling horrible about myself, hating myself because of this. I have always had low self esteem and that is why I got this disease. My past is filled with bad men who never loved me and used me for sex. I am a beautiful person inside and out, people have always tried to take this from me. I never realized just how special I am and that is why I allowed men to use me. They did it because they could. Well I am happy to say NO MORE! I refuse to spend one more day feeling bad about myself, I did not ask for this I am no less loveable for this. I am still the beautiful sweet girl I have always been. I will never settle for anything less than everything from a man and if they cant give that to me they don't get to share all the wonderful things I have to give. I know there are so many people who felt the same way I did. Because of this I finally realize I have settled way to much and deserve so much more than I have ever gotten. Now I will hold my head high and demand what I deserve, what we all deserve to be loved and treated with dignity, respect, and kindness. Don't settle for anything less than everything!

Answer:
the same thoughts have gone through my mind like that my first sexual partner was sooo loving and then when i had casual sex with 2 guys they werent even that great but because i'm so nice i decided to make them happy and know i think people shouldn't take sex for granted and use it for there own pleasure when they don't really care about the person, it should be something that ONLY happens when your in a relationship that is based on love, trust and respect, anyway bye