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I met a girl who was a friend of a girl I slept with and when I found out they were friends I told her about it, she seem funny about it and finally she told me why, she told me that she had herpes, I freaked out it was like 2 weeks before finals and I try to see a doctor but every time I call 4 an appointment it wasn't till next month and I couldn't see myself waiting that long and she told me on a saturday so nothing was open and I had two days of just wanting to sleep, because like 3 month before I had had a single red bump on the inner part of my testes and it went away I thought it was just a zit or skin irration cuz I'm always hot and sticky down there (sorry) so I started using baby power and I felt fine until she told me that, long story short I went to the clinic on tuesday and I couldn' t get tested cuz I didn't have anything to test like bumps or lesion so the doc was like u wore a condom and no oral ur fine and gave me some condoms, I was like cool thank u I feel much more better, but like a month to that day I go out last nite and I get a soreness in my kness, diarria, and a red bump shows up but it more like a paper cut, but like the other time I have answers for all this
knees hurt cuz I'd been on my feet all day and dance for an hour straight, the diarra runs was I ate cookies all day, and the paper cut sore was from getting grinded on hard by 3 girls at the club, becuz me belt was hiting that area. This kills me I just want to know and it suck cuz I had sex with the girl that told me after I got a negative test result, I wouldn't want to give this to her if I have it she been the only reason why I havn't gone crazy, I just need to know, I hate the way the system is set up if u go to the clinic they only can see 12 people that day and its only 3 days a week u get test and u have to wait a week, and they just sent me out with some condoms and didn't give me all the info that I've read on here I hope that doctor was right and that I just have a wierd way of making myself look sick, cuz he said that that using my finger isn't a way of getting it cuz its different skin, but I got oral sex from a girl after that girl and I think if I do have it it was from her but she had just had a baby and I know the doctor would of told her she had it, unless she just didnt care. I'm sorry for writing with no focus just stressed and being in school and working aint helping I wish I could just know if I had it, I really don't want to go to a regular doc but if thats what it takes, cuz I don't know if insurance has to notify my job or what, and I'll have a record of the check up. I don't know if I should go to the clinic and show them my cut or just go to a my doctor and ask for the test cuz I'm just ready to wait for a "real outbreak" to happen and find out that way, but that would just be avoiding the answer, well pray for me and the girl I may have infected, just on a side note I always have used condoms and it just makes me mad that the idea is that if you use condoms ur safe thats bull shit I wish someone would really teach sex ed right, and I hope that save my girl from getting it maybe.

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The story just got deeper when I talked to the girl last nite she said " Oh thats weird I had a bug bite under her belly button" now i'm freakin out cuz that was the one thing I really didn' t want to think about, How do u support ur self through this and while supporting someone else, It may not sound far but I even look at her and think maybe she had it cuz she kicked with the girl who started it all and I didn't get a sick until I mess with her, but I feel thats just me making another excuse, Damn HMO I'll call to make an appointment in the morning and I know its going to be like next cuz the doc is booked or something.

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I feel better today, and I told the girls yesterday about my problems and she thinks I'm over thinking it and I have something else wrong with me and I'm starting to believe her cuz I've broke out before like that before by just put lotion in that area before, but I still want to be safe and hope she is right.

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You know what, get a test. In my experience, this kind of thinking will go away when you don't feel so bad but keep coming back when you feel stressed or down. I've been told that you can carry it and get indications such as a tiny cut/dry skin/itchy skin by my doctor, and so has the partner I believe I contracted it from. He had no symptoms at all at the time we had sex but developed them at the same time as me (he'd slept with another girl just the week before and whilst we don't know for sure who got it first, what I do know is that neither he nor I showed any symptoms before we had sex)
Anyway, peace of mind and knowing exactly what you have is much better than worrying and wondering, so if you can get in and get your cut/lump checked out then GO!!!
Good luck.
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I went in and the doctor tested me and I'm ok just "dirty balls" need to puts some cream on them and wash them very well :) that was fucking with me

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Dirty balls? :? Is that a technical term for some sort of infliction or..you just don't wash properly? LMAO