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About 2 Months ago I had sex but the condom broke and I was exposed for about 40secs. The next day I had a sensation in my penis, no pain but something was there. About a week later I had itchy groin area which continues today, except not itchy but a sort of burning sensation. I have had spats of sensation on the outside of the penis but it comes and goes. I have had no leakage, no physical signs of anything, except a rash that lasted a day on my left thigh,(near my srcotum). 2 weeks later the same thing on my left, for a day then gone. A week later my scrotum looked red as well, then gone. I am urinating more frequently without pain, just a sensation when I finish, lasts a few seconds. I went to the doctor and had blood and urine test which all cam back negative, however no herpes test were conducted. I explained all the symptoms and she said if I was herpes there would be lesions,(sores) painful urination and I would have been to see her a lot earlier. If this is the case what have I got. She gave me some antibiotics which till now(4days) don?t appear to be doing anything. Can this be a UTI or the worst. I would love to hear from you guys, please help as I think I?ve just ruined my life, and my families.Can herpes be transmitted in seamen. Do you need sores to transmitte?

Living in hell

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Oh yes it is hell. Not knowing is hell. Don't you wish you could turn back time? I know I do. But you'll get used to living in hell like I did.

As for your question, our little friend for life doesn't have to show symptoms. Those blisters/lesions are the worst case scenarios. My doc even said, if you don't show any symptoms why the fuck do you care? :roll:

Stupid bitch, i care coz I don't wanna give it to anyone, you quack. You see, doctors are used to deal with traumas and life threating shit. Herpes isn't.

Anyway, you and I will never know for sure for about 18 months. All we can do is keep getting tested.

See the thing is, we can take 100 tests and they could all come back negative. But that itching/burning and pain and shit don't go away. You dick didn't feel that way b 4 this shit happend right? So what does that negative result from the test tell you? that's right, "absolutely nothing" You know what you have. You can't have fire without the smoke.

p.s. you want to rule out UTI, Prostate infection or other shit like contact dermities. So far it has been said no one ever had allergic reaction to normal vaginal secretion so rule allergies out. lol. :lol:

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without systoms, how do youpass it on. what a nightmare

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Ask for a H1 and H2 blood test anyway....

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What else could it be, I have sex, was exposed for less then a minute, the next day,(14hrs later) I have had ?something? for 2 months, no physical signs, just the burning feeling,(groin) irritable urinary track,(no discomfort when urinating). It can only be herpes, tested for everytrhing, just waiting for hsv1 and 2 to come back. My question is,(please advise), COULD THIS BE ANYTHING ELSE.

Completely Distressed

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In addition

The lady was tested for all std?s and they came back negative, I saw her again a week later and asked if she was tested for herpes, she rang the doc and confirmed she was and it was negative.
I thought I should add that the rim around my penis head has some colour change,(redish) and that my anus is sometimes itchy, the head also looks a bit wrinkly. After I have a shower the head looks patchy,(redish with white patches). So once again, could this be something else.(trying to keep my hopes up.

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Maybe its something as simple as yeast. Yeast infections can cause awful irratation, redness, itching on guys. Maybe the girl had slight yeast, not enough for her to be bothered, sometimes its uncomfortable and sometimes I dont even know I have it. Imagine, you'll put some cream on and poof! all better!

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I went to the doctor and had blood and urine test which all cam back negative, however no herpes test were conducted. I explained all the symptoms and she said if I was herpes there would be lesions,(sores) painful urination and I would have been to see her a lot earlier. Well good freakin grief. It just amazes me how uninformed so many doctors appear to be. Absolutely amazing. Like there's some perfectly "standard" way your body is definitely going to react with this virus.

You know what you should do? You should print out some of the discussions in this forum and give it to your doctor and tell them to read and learn. People arent here for fun making up so wide a range of symptoms...

Obviously, the ideal story is that you dont have anything serious. But I think you are behaving intelligently---You realize that even the few seconds that you were exposed to the other person could be enough for transmission of something. The antibiotics werent effective. And the rash returned to the same place on your thigh? I just think these are important observations. In some people H seems to pick a side to return to. For example I cant remember ever having an area of lesions that showed on both sides of my body at the same time. One guy described it as seeming to "jump" across his midline in an almost mirror image fashion. Outbreaks have come right up to the middle line down the center of my body, but I dont remember them being on both sides of my genitals or elsewhere at the same time. That's only my experience but I thought about that because of how you described the rash...I dont have any answers of course; I just fantasize punching your doctor in the nose :evil: ...

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your douctor sucks a big one.

I can't believe your concerns were just brushed off like that.

Can you see a different doctor? One who may give a shiit?

To me, what you're dotor is doing, or should I say, not doing, is just as bad as someone who knows or thinks they may have herpes and doesn't care about anyone else and just passes it on.