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My friends boyfriend
Question: Okay here is my deal. My best friends boyfriend and i have been friends for a while now and we talk all the time. It has never been anything to worry about, now all of the sudden i get butterflies and i think about him alot. Bottom line i like him and i dont want to hurt my friend. I have been talkin and i found out he told his little sister i was his girlfriend and that he talks to me way more than him and my friend talk. I told my friend how i felt but i just dont know what to do. PLEASE HELP Answer: Do you think you like him just because you have "butterflies" for him? and how old are you? edit: Nevermind, checked your profile and it says your 14-15 (didn't pay attention to date, only year) but that being said. I think you should just leave it alone. I think you went too far as it was telling your friend. Butterflies arn't a good measure of "liking" someone. I don't get butterflies for my girlfriend anymore, but I can honestly say I love her. Answer: NO thats not what makes me think i like him. I cant stop thinkin about him 24/7 and when i talk to him its like... well its hard to explai nnad i think i was right to go to my friend because i tell her everythign and i KNOW that i like him and she told me she could already tell Answer: Well, prepare yourself for a rough time. If your willing to put your friendship into a rocky situation for an early highschool relationship then go ahead. (Your friend may have said she's ok and not hurt, but there's not a very good chance that that is true). Take it from the guy who's two best friends in high school dated his ex girlfriends and dated one of his friend's ex girlfriends. (quite the circle we had (>_<)) Answer: i would say that you shouldnt be in a relationship with this guy. not only might it hurt your friend but you may end up getting hurt if he does the same thing to you that he did to his g/f. Answer: Get over puppy-love and junior-high-crushes before you even think of dating. Answer: Down with love triangles... Answer: thanks guys, i talked to him and he said that he would back off and tell his siter the truth and i told him that if it took me not talkin to him then thats what i would do but we all still talk Answer: I think you made a good choice. If he's telling his sister that he's dating you when he's actually in another relationship, I don't think he's ready for a real relationship. And like the other posters said, this could possibly ruin a friendship over a relationship that might last a week. Answer: yeah, they are dealing with it right now and he called me last night to tell me that it was stupid adn stuff like that, but for right now i told him that me and him need to take a break from talkin and from going places together so him and my friend can work stuff out Answer: If he breaks up with your friend and then says he wants to go out with you... ... please don't come ask our advice. Answer: I would never go out with him and i would NEVER do that to one of my friends Answer: Good. Answer: Good. Copyright © 2007 - 2008 www.thanktoday.com
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