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Well I don't want to post in this forum about this but I need to know people's opinion that are outside of my neighborhood.
I just met this girl. about a month and a half I have known her. She is beautiful and very sweet. She has been through a lot growing up. We have been the greatest friends. One problem is we are falling for each other. I have talked with her about it and I have told her to put God before me because I have learned if you don't put God first then it just isn't going to work out.
Another problem is she is falling for me way harder than I am for her. We are just friends but she tells me she loves me soooo much and I believe she does love me and to be honest I do love her too. I care for her a lot and Ihave told her that and I have said but I feel we should just be friends for right now. I want to be more than friends though. I'm ready to be committed to her.
One more problem and this is the BIGGEST. She had cancer. I believe she is healed and she believes that too. She says she does but she also says things like if God wants her to come home then she is willing. I understand she is trying to follow God but I don't think God wants her to die from cancer. They said she has 2 more months to live. Again, I believe she is healed!
I just really do care for her. She has grown so close to my heart. She encourages me. She roots for me. She is God loving. We read the bible together. We are practically a couple. I include her on a lot of things in my life. I know I keep rambling on and on but this is just very important to me.
Oh one more thing. She lives in Virginia.... I live in Alabama. I have tried long distance stuff before.....but it just hasn't worked yet. I had a gf move and then after she moved BAM! no contact ever except to tell me we aren't bf and gf anymore.
Thanks for any replies. I will say this again that I am just looking for anyone's opinion. I was thinking I don't care what these people think but you guys/girls are my brothers and sisters in christ. I would like to know what you think! haha you are like my family.
Thank you!
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If your biggest problem is that she may die, you don't really have much of a problem. We all will.
If you're interested in pursuing a relationship with her, go ahead. If her cancer reappears, so be it.
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Think about this. Jeremy Camp married his first wife even though she was going to die from her cancer. He didn't let that stop his love for her. Love is unconditional.
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very true.
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thanks you guys. I hope it will work out. We have to be open and very honest with each other. Again thanks!
(we=me + her)
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Originally Posted by GuiTarDudE89 Think about this. Jeremy Camp married his first wife even though she was going to die from her cancer. He didn't let that stop his love for her. Love is unconditional.
did she die?
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Originally Posted by AudioAce did she die?
yes. And he still loved her through it all.
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Yes, his first wide died..and he wrote one of his hit songs on that honey moon. He's now re-married..but thats not the point.
If you love her, then don't let cancer stand in the way. Nothing is too big for God to handle.