Question:
I have this friend whom i have been "friends" since i was 4, our familys are friends and we just got invited to her graduation party.. the thing is I don't want to go! Why? Well even though we are "friends" we don't hang out and whenever i go to her parties she treats me like crap! Then the next day calls and says im awesome then says she sorry, then the next party rolls around i go and she does a total repeat! Shes says im soo awesome and her best friend and blah blah until shes around her other friends, she doesnt want them to know we're friends or something. It's not like i can bring this up to her either b/c our familys are friends and my mom would kill me if i did anything. On the same day of her Party is my other friends graduation party, this girl i recently became friends with and we're already close and shes really nice and will want me there. What do i do?! I oblogated to the first friends b/c shes like family and will be fusious if i don't go the other girl would want me there but willtotally understand if i have to go to girl 1s... i need a really good excuse not to go to girl ones, i know i'll leave there hurt, embarrassed, feeling crappy and mad where as the other girls i know a bunch of people and have a bomb! what should i do?
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Go to whichever party you feel like going to. It's ridiculous to let some non-existant obligation ruin a potentially great evening.
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Let's look at your options:
1. Go to the old friend's party even though it's not what you want to do.
2. Make up an excuse NOT to go to the old friend's party so you can go to the new firend's party.
Man, that's a tough choice. But then again, we're forgetting an option.
3. Tell the old friend the truth--that you appreciate her invitation but don't feel comfortable at her parties--and go to the new friend's party.
Whatever you do, please do not lie and make up an excuse. If you want to go to the new friend's party, then be honest about your reasons.
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If you make something up, make sure it's bad, but not so bad that you can't have a miraculous recovery
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Make new friends, but keep the old. One is silver, but the other gold.
*sigh* memories.
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I personally would go with the new, but I would pray about it.
Which friends do you think will be more positive?
I would go to whichever friends will be true friends.
God Bless!
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Here is my practical advice:
Tell old friend that you can't go to her party, because you have other plans. No other explanation required.
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Originally Posted by Andrew Here is my practical advice:
Tell old friend that you can't go to her party, because you have other plans. No other explanation required.
I concure..means i agree.
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Originally Posted by Andrew Here is my practical advice:
Tell old friend that you can't go to her party, because you have other plans. No other explanation required. I agree, Great idea!
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Originally Posted by bobthecockroach 3. Tell the old friend the truth--that you appreciate her invitation but don't feel comfortable at her parties--and go to the new friend's party.
yup thats what i would do O_O she might say the same things again like "your awesome and so on" tell her she says that all the time